This is a question that I've been asking myself a lot recently and I'm not sure how to judge what certain women are looking for.

So say you approach a woman, get her number, and text her later trying to set something up.

Now if I try to set up a hookup, there are some that are down, but some are not and then if I try again with a regular date I am met with a 100% decline rate.

Same thing for initially trying a regular date. I try to set up coffee or food and they seem distant and aren't interested. So i try again for a more netflix and chill situation and am met with no response.

Its always possible that they weren't interested in the first place, however this happens quite often with tinder matches as well. Or maybe I'm doing something else wrong.

I am down for hooking up or a regular date.

So how do you guys determine what you want with a girl or what she wants?