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[–]plenty_of_eesh 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
1) Simply becoming more culturally adapted to the surrounding environment (if you are in some "Western" country. Are you?)
2) Maybe she's just getting comfortable in her home with her housemates as if they are family. It's possible that, over time, she feels like you have become like a brother.
3) She is interested in you (or someone else in the house) romantically and this is an attempt to be noticed sexually.
Please don't assume it's number (3). Try to talk to her. Wait to see if she gives any attention to you in particular. It's probably nothing to do with you.
[–]Mohassa17 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Definitely not 1 because we’re not in a western country lol. Thing is she smiles and laughs at everything I say even though the situation isn’t that funny.
[–]plenty_of_eesh 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then I dunno, man. You are outside my territory. Maybe she really likes you...
...and maybe this is the closest people in your culture are likely get to organic attraction / non-arranged pairing.
You tell me what is okay to do, in your house/culture, in cases of potential mutual attraction. In mine, you invite her to do something interesting that is just the two of you. If she says yes then you gauge her attraction and .... if it feels right, physically touch her very briefly in inconsequential ways, and ... if that feels right, go for a kiss...
But maybe in your family / culture you could both get executed for that. I DON'T KNOW.
But sure, maybe she likes you.
[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
She can make a decision to be covered or not and that's her choice to make.
Do you like her? Do you care for her?
[–]Mohassa17 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yes
[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I need to know what country you are in order to help. Does she wear a hijab, abaya, niqab etc? Are her parents cool or conservative?
She seems comfortable around you but that can go either way.
[–]Mohassa17 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
We live in Yemen.. she wears a hijab. Her parents are kinda both but not to the point where they don’t cover themselves when a man walks in.
[–]ChocolateGlamazon27 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yemen seems fairly conservative. I'd suggest continue being friendly, smile at her but don't make a move unless you know her family is cool.
Her feeling comfortable to reveal her hair to you considering that you aren't her relative is a huge, huge, step. That says she feels comfortable and relaxed towards you. We'd need to know more about your interactions to help though but it's a positive step.
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[–]plenty_of_eesh 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Open your mind.
Women can seduce men. And in different cultures, there are different levels of "normal decorum", so...
Well let's just go with an example. Let's say you have a female housemate and she starts going around the house in her bra and underwear, one week.... What if you were already attracted to her? Could it be a bold move to stop you in your tracks and make you notice her?
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