Don't be like the person I used to be...I used to watch tons of pickup videos, read tons of pickup books and know all the techniques, theories, tricks, terms and stuff. I used to be able to break down any interaction of some guy & girl talking and be like "ha he's qualifying her now" "ha she's shit testing him" "oh that's a comfort test where he should be real & not give value". But when it came to the field, the real world, real life...I sucked so bad. I had approach anxiety, premature ejection, nervousness...You name it. Until I used the product SHIFT by RSD Julien where he explains that you don't actually have to wait until you master game & pickup & then go out and practice, you don't have to watch 100s upon 100s of videos and techniques or wait 'til this product or video drops & then you'll get the inspiration...All you have to do is take action, he even says "Pause this video now and go out there". All you have to do is go out, get the reference experiences and then break them down and learn from them. Right after you go out & interact with girls, come home and write all the details of what happened, break it down and see what lessons you can learn from that, now you can go to the manual (which is videos & books) and see what you did right & what you did wrong. That's the ONLY way to learn!!!! This is very key, it helped me so much with my approach anxiety. The only problem I have now is being a little nervous and not thinking quick in the moment...But I'm working on them by taking more action. Think of it this way, boxers for example don't just listen to the trainer and study the gameplan and then go fight the big fight...No, they actually spar! They spar a lot and they learn from the mistakes they did in sparring...That's how they learn & improve.
You don't have to wait until you finish that product you're using, until you get jacked, until you get rich or until you save enough money to get a new hairline...Take action now
Oh and one more thing, those little Mystery..Pickup things like leaning back, approaching from the side, spinning the girl, not showing too much interest, fear of looking needy...Etc don't actually matter! No girl is gonna say "oh I can't fuck you now because you didn't spin me or because you were leaning in too hard & telegraphed way too much interest"....Girls' emotions change quickly, same goes for attraction...You might say or do something that makes her lose a bit of attraction but if you give a statement of empathy/take a step back and change the topic, you're good to go, she's gonna forget! Same for physicality, don't be afraid to get physical just calibrate after, if she tenses up back off and try later...What's bad is seeing her tense up & not backing off. Just do it and calibrate after the fact not before
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