Been seeing a lot of "what do I do exactly to get (end result)" . Guys. Girls. I don't know if TofuTofu's old posts are still around, but the idea has been (since this sub's early days) being genuine and being confident in doing so. There is no end goal. Ever. Confidence will get you insanely far. And confidence just comes from pretending to be confident until you are confident. Just be comfortable in your own shoes and people will stop thinking you're a freak. See a girl you like? Think she's pretty? Just. Say. Hi. Who are you? Nice to meet you. Slip in a compliment if you feel like its appropriate. Ask questions, be interested. Thats it. You should not sitting there like a vulture, trying to find out how to hypnotize girls into your bed. 1. because you don't have to, to get laid, and 2. because its disgusting and you'll never be happy that way. Meet the girl. Fall in love. The sex is an afterthought, and its 100x better if you're in love anyway. The most manipulative thing you can do, to get girls, is to yourself. To better yourself, to become attractive. Whether its body, grooming, style, money, or personality. Work on all of it. If you have a best friend, who's your total bro.. if you remember how easy it was to meet them and talk... thats literally all you have to do with girls. As odd as it sounds to say, they're total bros. Theres no reason to act like they're a different species. The sidebar is your friend (I think it still is?), I remember downloading everything from there onto my shitty iphone 3 and just reading through it on the train. I visit here maybe once a year to see if this place has dropped in quality like the rest of reddit, and its kind of disheartening to watch. I was so fucking lucky to find this place in highschool, keep it positive, and don't go into the dark side please. For me.