so I literally just found this subreddit and am extremely interested by it, especially since I'm in the kind of guy who has had bad luck with going on 5 women in my life now. I've been reading a lot of the materials and I really like what they have to say; being confident, not feeling cheated when a girl isnt interested in me, etc. Things I have learned just from growing up.

But I'm here now because I'm in a little bit of a dilemma. See, I go to a school with very few girls. Think 85:15 guy:girl ratio. Yea. So getting girls here is a little more challenging than usual. There's this great girl in ROTC with me; she's smart, cute, funny, and really cool. So I called her Saturday to ask her out. She tells me she has plans with friends that night, asks if i want to do something later. Long story short she comes back and tells me she has to do homework for the rest of the night. I figure not a problem, all legitimate reasons to not go out with me other than not being interested. But then the following day I bump into her around noon. I ask if shes free that night and she tells me she's doing homework all night. Today I saw her and she seemed to be pretty stressed about school and either doesn't think much of the fact that i asked her out or just doesn't feel like dealing with me.

We're still chill with each other but my question is this: Should I approach her about this weekend and ask her out again or just let this semester (only 1 week left) go by and possibly try again this fall? I don't want to seem pushy but she hasn't straight up denied me yet. I also think though that I should just give her space during finals week and we've got 3 more years together in school for something to happen. Thoughts?