Frames are one of those things that are very popular in the pickup community, viewing yourself as the prize, looking at the positive of every situation, I even used one of viewing myself as puff daddy for the past week (I found it in an AMA). The issue here, and what I began having trouble with, is that it gave me 'confidence' in certain situations, but causes one to lose touch with their true essence. If you can't laugh and joke with your friends because you're too busy viewing yourself as "a high-value alpha" then you won't know who you really are or what you really want.