TL;DR: How do i stop caring so much about instant rejections and getting instant blowouts?

It seems like im getting the same problem over and over my last nightgame sessions.

I get in a good state when girls give me good reactions but i start to get frustrated/angry/sad whenever i get instant blowouts, and this last one is happening very frequently.

I have two hypothesis of why im getting instant blowouts:

1) Girls don't like my physical appereance, so i don't reach the minimal of beauty for them to consider having something with me. I'd say im average looking guy btw.

2)Im approaching in a bad state because of previous rejections, so im not having enough energy to stop the girl thats walking in the middle of the party, so she could have an interaction with me. Basically my initial vibe is bad.

So im looking for answers of how i could improve these two main points that i listed above.

1) Well, i cannot change my physical appearance, but how do i stop caring so much about it during the night? I caught myself in a endless mental loop that basically is saying that the girls im approaching are rejecting me because of my looks. Which i think is BS because im not that ugly tbh.

2) What do i have to do to stop caring about instant rejections? I used to have fun with rejections and not take it personally, but in the last nightgame sessions my emotions start to build up, making me frustrated/angry/sad, which completely kills the vibe.

3) Is that something that i can ajust in my opener to stop getting this instant rejections?

Altough i'd like answers to all of these questions, i kinda recognize that number 2 is really the issue, i really think thats an inner game stuff that i have to solve but don't know what.

Thanks in advanced guys!!