Totally rizzed this girl, I have been talking to this girl on and off for a year… she lives in my hometown which I visit 2-3x a year. I really like her and I see myself getting into a relationship with her and commit to long distance date her. Before deciding to visit we had a good conversation where in she made plans for our first date. But now she tells me she is not ready as she thinks she is not good enough for me and would ruin my life and cause me pain (over exaggerating) but who’s gonna change the mind of a 18 yr old. She mentions clearly she really likes me but she cannot do this to me. I waited for a while and still talked to her everyday in the hopes that she would change her mind tried to as well as I decided that I wanna be invested in her. I guess what I am looking for is a way to deal with the situation an exit strategy?