I've been experimenting with compliance - Getting small committments.

  • Getting a female teammate to promise to keep up on her training, so she doesn't get left behind.

  • Getting a txt-prospect to promise to do something nice for herself today.

  • Telling a date that I'll be bringing a gift I made for her, and asking her to make something for me. (She's giddy over this).

I'm slow to "get" game, but am picking up bits and pieces.