Warning: Wasted while writing this

Hey guys! Just some brief info/tips before my informal FR. I started out like many of you newbs at seduction. Kiss-less virgin as a freshman in college. Sophomore year I blundered into losing my virginity. Summer between sophomore and junior years I discovered this site, and began reading it all up, but I DIDNT PRACTICE. When you finish reading this, go fucking practice seduction. It is literally in your DNA to seduce women. Anyways, junior year I was more successful with women, but not to the level I want. This year though, my senior year of college has been legendary. It all clicked, although for the wrong reason. And here is my FR and thoughts.

After a rather boring welcome week, the second week of the semester had arrived. And that Monday began with a sex dream about one of my best friends, a girl. The second day began the same. This was a problem, and I knew I had to fix it. But how? The answer, as most of the masters on this helpful site would say, is to go and find other girls. Plurality being important in order to reduce the scarcity mindset! Out of desperation to think of my close friend as just that again, I began approaching every cute girl who looked at me when I had time (i.e. not between or before classes). That gorgeous girl flashed me a smile in the library? Introduce myself. Hottie in the elevator? Talked to her. Cute chick at the bustop? Hello! And I was succeeding. Swimmingly. Group of four girls at a concert? Fuck it! Two girls on their phones at a party? Not a problem. Even my tinder game was on point. I was money.

And after all that approaching, I had to step back and realize something. I was succeeding. No stupid tricks, plays or openers. I was doing what my DNA told me to. Say hi look her in the eyes and touch her. That’s all it took. But what was different than the past? I realized, I didn’t care. I didn’t give a single fuck what these girls thought of me or if they wanted me. These girls had absolutely zero value to me, it had finally clicked, but for the wrong reason. These girls had no value to me as they weren’t my friend. I had, for the wrong reason, removed the pedestal I had placed under the pussy. And that is literally all it took.

Subtle flirting with these girls? Fuck that. I was making my intentions known. Ask to bang? We banged. Movie time? Banged. After four weeks of this, I had gotten 30+ numbers, and slept with the hottest women of my life. My friends are in awe. Their girlfriends are getting angry. Women hotter than I used to think I deserve were in my bed. And not to say I deserved these women, but I now had them. My scarcity problem was fixed. All because I didn’t care. For example, after a two-hour fun session with an absolutely amazing girl, in personality, intelligence and looks, I simply told her she needs to leave. I had homework to do. Can you imagine? Kicking a babe of your apartment? Old me couldn’t. There are currently four girls texting me on a regular basis to hangout. And all because I stopped caring.

This is the message I want everyone to learn. That if I, a kiss-less, awkward, virgin could turn into your average dud, and then turn into a guy successful with women then you can to. Listen to the advice from these greats on this site! Read what they recommend! Watch what they recommend! But most importantly, DO what they recommend. Practice. Be confident. And don’t put the pussy on a pedestal.

While not a moral of the story, I do want to say I’ve found that this is not what I want and it isn’t for everyone. While I’m happy and living a full life with school and hobbies (club hockey to name one), this isn’t what I thought it would be. These women weren’t bringing me happiness. They brought some fun in my life, but nothing more. No meaning. And in hindsight, if I could tell younger me that, I would. You should not pursue seduction to find meaning to your life, or happiness. And at the end of the day, I’ve realized that I’m meant for a monogamous relationship. And sure, I could go exclusive and start dating this incredible girl I’ve been sleeping with (I made clear I didn’t want to date, and she said she was ok with that). But I won’t. And do you know why? Because those dream’s still haven’t stopped.