I've been a member and reader of this sub for quite a while. I haven't overly practised seduction but understanding some of the messages the community preaches has changed my life.

One of the most influential I believe was the "Fake it until you make it". But what happens when you do make it. Will you just constantly have identity issues in not feeling a sense of belonging to where you have gone in your life. Well, yes. This often will happen and people will slink back to what their identity is comfortable with. Therefore, I am not preaching fake it until you make it, or at least do that for awhile, but "Fake it until you become it!"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ks-_Mh1QhMc This youtube TED talk puts, not ideas of my own, but the general philosophy of the evolution of "Fake it until you make it" to "Fake it until you become it".

I hope this also opens up more discussion on non-verbal communication and body language.

Thought I'd share.