Before the date take her to your place "for 1 minute" (like you need to feed fish, get mail, change your shirt) tell her she can wait for you outside. If you are driving, pick her up somewhere and drive to your place, if not, pick a restaurant next to your place, meet her there or somewhere close and walk home.

When at your door you say, "its only one minute, but if you promise to behave and not rape me (because girls normally do so) you can come in". Be playful, when inside the house, show her around to remove the fear of unknown territories, tell her, "this is my kitchen I eat there, my bathroom, bedroom, etc."

Have some interesting piece of something (game, instrument, book, picture, movie, album) that you can show her. Then say you have this amazing tea, or booze if you feel so, that is from the Moon and you use it only when you meet presidents (or some story like that), and if she behaves well, maybe she can have a cup later (future projection, qualification), but not too late as you need to wake up really early for work/study/etc. (time constraint)

At this moment if she is already comfortable, and you spend quite some time, you can stay and cook at your place. If she is not quite comfortable go out, but she is already familiar with your place and it will be much easier to bring her back.

Go eat out, then bounce to a different location - preferably a grocery store, where you need to buy a breakfast for yourself. And guess what, you are willing to get her back to her place but you just need a second to throw your food in the fridge.

And if you escalated verbally and physically well enough you should have no problem to get physical at home. She wants sex no less than you, you just need to find socially acceptable excuses for her.

At home use the seduction strategies - but this is the topic for another thread.

P.S. Going to her place is riskier as you are not in control of many things, but still possible.

Stay beautiful,

Johnny Maddick