I'm sort of dealing with 2 issues here. But the second issue may stem off of the first so any advice is welcome.

So, I've been gaming consistently since about the beginning of the summer and have had very slow, but steady progress. I've yet to actually pull a girl from a bar, but have brought girls back to my house before with friends, but I wasn't really into them or it just didn't work out. This was mostly due to a lack of physicality which I have recently started to address.

Before I started gaming, I got really into the whole self improvement thing and have now taken it on as one of my passions. I love reading about ways to change and expand my mind, and share that info with my friends. I would consider my inner game to be a 5-7/10, with it being a 5 right now.

But for a measly 2 weeks I didn't go out, and I've been having SO much trouble getting back into it. I've been getting blown out of most sets and haven't been taking as much action as before.

I was recently reading something about how many men are beta's with alpha qualities, and I do think this still somewhat applies to me. I still tend to doubt my abilities and am getting slightly apathetic about making connections through cold approach.

Without making this a 10 paragraph essay, do you have any tips to get back on track to taking action with women, and to generally reproach the ways of an alpha mindset?

tl;dr:

  • chode all my life up until I was about 20/21. then graduated and had no idea how to get a girl
  • recently started gaming consistently, with slow/steady results
  • feeling a bit beta/lost