I'm a 24 (m) who dated 5 he same girl for 7 years. I've been single for 6 months now and I've been reading the stuff on here and other sitesand i lost 50lbs. She is a 28 and has a 4 year old which I knew and I'm fine with. When I asked her out she said yes but that she can't go out that night so she invited me to have dinner with her and her daughter her house. Not only is this my first date in 7 years but I have never gone on a date with a child involved. Do I make it a point to go out of my way to play with the daughter? How much attention is too much or too little. How do I flirt with a 4 year old present or is it best not to until the child isn't presnt? Any advice is welcome.