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This is 100% the subconscious, or perhaps conscious, goal of it all. He basically says it in interviews, pretty clearly there between the lines. 'We can't control the narrative, and they are being exposed to pernicious video game you tube commenters, etc, who might open their brains to a different worldview! Ban the phones until they are fully indoctrinated!'
/r/MensRights24/03/25 10:40 AM
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Get a dog and take it for a long walk every day, if you don't have one. Seriously . Also, keep in mind that the winter is rough on a lot of people, try to get some sun if possible.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:02 PM
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typical to the responses coming in from AskWomen -- i'm just looking for recommendations in the grown up world -- not talking college years or axe body spray types
/r/seduction03/04/15 11:55 PM
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i'm not really an A&F or Ed Hardy type of guy, but i'll give those a sniff
/r/seduction03/04/15 11:49 PM
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yeah, i'm either going to Ulta or Sephora near me -- just before i spend $50 to $100 for a very small bottle, i wanna have some names that both i like and are liked by women
/r/seduction03/04/15 11:44 PM
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"By my calculations, you are a female that is likely to have a high breeding success rate, based on the curves of your body and facial symmetry. Would you like to mate and/or procreate with me?"
/r/seduction15/09/14 06:57 PM
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It doesn't hurt. But money does not necc equal getting laid or being happy, etc -- source, I've been in career situations with lots of guys making rapid large amounts of money -- many of them were stressed, miserable etc, and some still lacked vital women/dating skills.
/r/seduction15/09/14 03:58 PM
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You basically answered it yourself -- in this case she is being unresponsive, could be a wide variety of reasons. You could try again in a few weeks/months, that's about it. Sidenote, glad she drove to you and not the other way around. I'm so lazy I won't drive across town for most women, prefer those that live close.
/r/seduction15/09/14 03:55 PM
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Don't be so worried about things getting awkward -- life often gets awkward anyway, you might as well go for it with the women you are attracted to or feel a connection with.
/r/seduction15/09/14 03:51 PM
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Not necessarily for various reasons -- it does make things a bit easier/smoother though. General peace of mind regarding 1 aspect of life, when you're not worried about paying rent or going out to a nice dinner or going on a vacation. But do you want women who are only around because you splash money on them? (why not just get hookers)
/r/seduction15/09/14 03:45 PM
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that's actually a funny one
/r/seduction12/09/14 09:35 PM
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the 1000 yard stare ... same girl who said "i'm gonna pass out, but you can still have sex with me" among other things [for the record I did not take her up on that] it's sad really, i feel bad for them and what they've been through -- but i can't devote my life to saving somebody like that
/r/seduction12/09/14 09:05 PM
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A lot of women will tell you awful things that have happened to them in the past -- but usually after you know them better and they trust you. A woman who says that on the first night in the middle of making out is pretty damaged, like he said.
/r/seduction12/09/14 09:00 PM
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I hate using the term Shit Test (particularly in relation to a serious subject like that), but sounds like she pretty much pulled a nuclear one out on you that surprised you and altered the vibe. I understand you may be down from this, but think of the positives -- you gamed the system to get drinks, a table, and all that stuff for free based on your guile & wits -- and you attracted and made out with a beautiful woman.
/r/seduction12/09/14 08:53 PM
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follow up to that: Knock knock Who's there? Meat. Meat who? Meat my dick!
/r/seduction12/09/14 08:43 PM
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Knock, Knock! (make sure to rap on her forehead like a door when you do it) Who’s There? Dewey! Dewey who? Dewey have to use a condom? source: http://www.jokes4us.com/knockknockjokes/dirtyknockknockjokes.html
/r/seduction12/09/14 08:36 PM
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They can be excellent. If you go to vibe to the music and enjoy it, not go there with your primary purpose to pick up girls.
/r/seduction12/09/14 08:23 PM
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Kind of a sidenote: the nice thing about Reddit and other places is that this stuff is being giving out for free with really no ulterior motives.
/r/seduction12/09/14 08:20 PM
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Along the same lines as that -- the fact that he is saying he is SO against casual sex, may be a part of it in general in the bigger picture or the smaller one.
/r/seduction12/09/14 08:17 PM
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I was just being silly. That reminds me, one time a buddy invited me to this bar to see a girl he knew. Said it was a charity function. Turns out it was a fireman charity auction. The women were wet as hell for the guys on stage. But I didn't exist that night. Sorry nothing helpful from me right now.
/r/seduction12/09/14 05:02 AM
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Chicks dig firemen. Pose for one of those charity calendars.
/r/seduction12/09/14 04:45 AM
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People in high school still flex like its a 1980s movie? Wow, things haven't changed that much after all ...
/r/seduction12/09/14 04:42 AM
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The Situation 2 is hilarious, yes you definitely triggered something in her. What's your man got to do with me? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VvYIpa1Ulvw
/r/seduction12/09/14 04:40 AM
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You're worried about stepping on toes, you should be worried about stepping into pussy. (i know that sounds harsh, but it flowed well as a phrase)
/r/seduction12/09/14 04:33 AM
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"She won't "lose attraction" to you due to not seeing you." Not to be a downer, but i personally wouldn't guarantee that as a hard/fast rule. [edit -- just realized it's only a month -- nevermind, it should be ok ...]
/r/seduction11/09/14 09:49 PM
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make sure to have her send you some sexy pics then - and send her some if she wants them, or some other way that keeps her tingling (i don't mean every day, but sporadically enough to keep the fire going)
/r/seduction11/09/14 09:49 PM
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I would think Skype with video would be better than phone FB etc for doing that.
/r/seduction11/09/14 09:26 PM
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I'm gonna pass on giving advice on how to be fun - i'm a bit tired. Sounds like you are entering deep convos with the girls. You are choosing to do that and/or participate in that -- just realize that while you're doing it, if you want to keep things more light. That deep convo thing can actually work if you do it right, without having to be the 'fun' guy -- but on the other hand it can also lead to deep friend zone in many cases. And honestly, some guys will be more entertaining and fun natural…
/r/seduction11/09/14 09:08 PM
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I don't see any major mistakes you made. The boyfriend thing can be a tough one to overcome, you tried a couple times, then it's prob time to bail. That might have been the only thing. But you got her number. Wondering why you had chemistry on the beach but not over the smoothie?
/r/seduction11/09/14 09:02 PM
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Kino and escalate - search on here and elsewhere for that. Also, make your physical attraction to a girl known early on, to avoid falling into the friend zone. You can still be friends later with her.
/r/seduction11/09/14 08:57 PM
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like he said, some girls will notice the change and will want you -- not all, but it definitely can happen it's satisfying, like when you go back years later and end up sleeping with a girl that wouldn't look at you twice in high school
/r/seduction11/09/14 06:37 PM
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it's up to you ultimately, but i would say not 4 nights in a row or in rapid succession like this -- particularly since you haven't closed the deal yet -- you are busy or have other plans -- make her wait until next week I would say, she may be hot and heavy by then (small chance she flakes or freaks out on you over the delay, but that's the risk you have to take, and if that happened it would teach you a lot about her) - you could send her a brief text over the weekend to keep you in her mind
/r/seduction11/09/14 06:31 PM
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I get where you're coming from. I'm really not squeamish about it - just prefer not to know specifics in general.
/r/seduction11/09/14 05:11 PM
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I rarely would want to give a serious answer to that, unless we're already down the road into a conversation and hopefully some attraction.
/r/seduction11/09/14 04:49 PM
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I try to avoid bringing up my number in general - they can tell from my stories and my personality that I'm fairly experienced. And generally I don't want to even know the women's # (out of site, out of mind), so I try to avoid going down that road. But when pressed I usually will tell them around the area -- it's funny how some women are a bit shocked, while others are like "that's not so high".
/r/seduction11/09/14 04:41 PM
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So, you have a girlfriend who is a waitress, and you are asking us for tips on picking up a waitress? If you've made a server laugh or at least have gotten her to notice you (hopefully in a positive way) with something you said or did during the meal, "So... what time do you get off work?" is a simple direct thing (can be said in a joking way) that lets you know a lot ... better said closer to the end before you are leaving, not at the beginning of the meal. It can work even if you are with seve…
/r/seduction11/09/14 04:34 PM
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Music & Dancing is basically a universal aphrodisiac, particularly to women
/r/seduction11/09/14 04:27 PM
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this is a more advanced sidenote -- but what he says above in the first paragraph is a decent way to deal with when there are more Alpha guys dominating the conversation or scene, which is a tricky situation for everyone (including me) kind of active listening and enjoying things and biding your time, not getting mopey or shutting down -- or getting into a pissing contest with them
/r/seduction11/09/14 04:20 PM
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One example, if you feel the convo is starting to fade, that can be a good time to say "listen i have to go (you can give a reason or not), but .." fill in the rest on your own as far asking her out and getting her number -- then leave or move on to talk to other people. If she rejects you, so what? Life goes on. Plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction11/09/14 04:17 PM
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Sounds like she gave you an extremely clear Indication Of Interest (IOI) - it is up to you to follow through on that. Don't worry about her possibly having a boyfriend or whatever, that's not your problem or concern at this point. Read the basics of stuff on this sub and elsewhere (check the Top posts for things that apply to you, or the Sidebar).
/r/seduction11/09/14 04:11 PM
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move on past the cousins, please m8
/r/seduction11/09/14 04:06 PM
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One thing to keep in mind is that some women just flake (particularly young ones), for a variety of reasons, some of which may have nothing to do with you.
/r/seduction11/09/14 04:05 PM
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seems like a of people on this sub love Mark Manson's stuff -- i'll have to check him out -- he must be the 'choice of the New Generation'
/r/seduction11/09/14 04:03 PM
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along the lines of what he said, some women will find it endearing if you say "i'm nervous" or something when it gets to that point (i mean after some attraction has been built) or you can just try what feels natural and not be scared -- you don't have to jump into being Johnny Porn Star, you can have a great make out and feel up session first and that will make you feel awesome read about KINO on this sub and elsewhere
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:58 PM
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I once said "There's a good ad for tires in there" to a girl reading the newspaper and it worked. You can say anything, like he said -- it may or may not work, but at least you tried.
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:54 PM
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Based on your first paragraph, there is absolutely no empirical reason that you shouldn't have some guy friends and be able to at least somewhat meet and date women successfully in college. Your self-esteem and confidence sounds incredibly low for social situations -- but for other aspects of life you are disciplined and confident and successful. Do you have any interests or hobbies? Maybe try to find people that are in those circles. They may find you interesting in ways that others don't. Mayb…
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:46 PM
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that is some serious numbers ... just wondering, have you told many women your actual number?
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:38 PM
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also asking questions like that can tell you how open she is in general as a person -- some people are very repressed or naive or hopeless romantics, etc
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:33 PM
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'Meeting friends for dinner/drinks/etc at ***, come along, it will be fun.'
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:28 PM
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No idea what you're referring to - once a week min twice a week max for a new girl? That's fine, put that in your own comment. The whole question is incredibly vague.
/r/seduction11/09/14 04:33 AM
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Based on what you described, I would say on a practical basis that while these are your friends, you will do better with women when the more suave guys aren't around. Some guys like that will basically scarf up the good available women and rarely throw a bone your way. Some aren't so selfish, but many are. Not saying they can't still be your good friends - just that you will likely do better with women on your own or with a diff small group of ppl.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:27 AM
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I actually wouldn't in this case - you say she is unstable currently - it's likely not going to end well. Not to mention that she basically dumped you, possibly for a diff guy that didn't work out. Won't you feel like a stronger person if you just move on from her?
/r/askTRP11/09/14 04:03 AM
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What you said about accepting every social outgoing offer that comes your way - that can be a very good thing or practice for a time being, especially for people who have a tendency to hermit.
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:54 AM
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Imagine if you could salsa dance and levitate - skies the limit!
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:50 AM
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Wear a "hello my name is " nametag where ever you go - and just point to it
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:40 AM
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It varies - in general I would say try to avoid the temptation of hanging w a newish girl 4 or more times a week. Right now I have a girl I see about once a month, maybe twice - and that works great for me in that case.
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:34 AM
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i would in general say enjoy and savor that life while it lasts, save your money and avoid the addictions -- then after it dies down (which is normally the case, not always), then you can settle down with a cool chick if you like having a relationship on the road with all that temptation is probably incredibly difficult in general
/r/seduction11/09/14 02:15 AM
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because he is young and hasn't been through life yet and seen its wide variety of possibilities (and disappointments)
/r/seduction11/09/14 02:12 AM
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the title and the first sentence implied unhappiness , but the actual post was not at all
/r/seduction11/09/14 02:10 AM
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no i think it's more likely your social skills to be honest, lack of confidence, etc -- meeting a minimum standard of physical appearance is no guarantee of anything -- some tall thin guys hunch over and stare at the ground and are very shy that's why all this advice in here about being a fun person to be around, someone who can engage people in conversations or banter that keeps them interested and enjoying themselves, working on your inner game, self-esteem, etc work on building some male frie…
/r/seduction11/09/14 12:17 AM
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i'm not 100% sure what you're asking -- are you kind of saying, you want to treat (and are treating) a potential gf differently than a girl you want to sleep with? -- remember that physical attraction generally has to be there first and pretty early on -- so the stuff you did with the 'crazy' girls that worked should work on this girl as well -- if you are too much of the 'friendly' nice guy, she may not have or build the proper interest in you - sounds a bit like you are elevating this girl to …
/r/seduction11/09/14 12:01 AM
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slim tall and rated a bit above average ... so you need to know it's not those superficial things that is holding you back -- there are plenty of bald, fat, old and other guys who can do this on various levels, including even Gingers!
/r/seduction10/09/14 11:52 PM
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this is not the place for stupid negativity like that , particularly on a post like that is very reasonable and relatable to many
/r/seduction10/09/14 11:22 PM
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i like what he said above, and that is very big to give a lesser buddy a shot and back away -- a lot of guys who can get girls are sharks and won't do that i might add: i don't think either guy necessarily has to back off, but only with the pre-understanding with each other that whoever, if anyone, 'wins' -- that there won't be negativity and hurt feelings that could severely damage your friendship
/r/seduction10/09/14 11:13 PM
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some good flirting there, starting around the 4th slide now you may want to avoid too many long text sessions like this in the future that aren't 'rewarded' by seeing her in person and other things
/r/seduction10/09/14 11:07 PM
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and then escalate attraction and gauge interest with kino or whatnot on the 'date'
/r/seduction10/09/14 11:04 PM
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Sounds like a good start - maybe try to move on quicker in this sort of case next time and mingle with other people, if you don't think any attraction or interest is growing. Her friend was a bit jealous or protective or whatever, that's why she came back in. Also there can be a lot of politics and other inter-related social things going on with Sorority/Fraternity people, that possibly could have a played a part in this whole thing. Not sure how interested you are in pledging, but I would think…
/r/seduction10/09/14 10:59 PM
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yes, i was obviously joking around too -- that's what i tried to imply with the silly :D
/r/seduction10/09/14 06:10 PM
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just add this part in for fun -- the Skeeve Em Out Approach :D "I like one word drinks, they are manly. Beer, Coke, Whiskey ... my favorite drink is 2 words though ... Breast Milk" *wink leeringly then add the Conspiracy Guy Approach with a little Arrogant Guy thrown in "But i HATE Water, that is the 1 word drink I don't touch. Don't believe anything you hear in the 'mainstream' media, Water is loaded with chemicals that neutralize us ... so anyway, enough about me, let's talk about me some more…
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:59 PM
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The part you're talking about -- it's a numbers game, not a failure game. Same with salesmen, pro athletes, analysts and many other things. Probabilities and skills.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:56 PM
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She will be expecting a guy like that to pull off an elaborate engagement ruse when he proposes
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:55 PM
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Most guys who come to this stuff are similar to you (or maybe even worse off). They want to learn about this stuff precisely because they are clueless and haven't been able to do it on their own -- but they can see and analyze that other guys are doing it. You're not alone.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:51 PM
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Sounds like you are handling it well so far and know what you want out of this. Stand by what you want and explain it calmly and clearly - preferably face to face or on phone, rather than text. Try not to get into a long emotional discussion about it - phone call you can hang up if need be, if face to face should probably not be at your place so you can leave if need be, somewhere else prob better. Just be prepared that she may end it over this (temporarily at least) -- but if you can walk away,…
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:50 PM
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that guy's verbal presentation style is a bit monotone and it sounds rehearsed, like some of the lines were recorded many times
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:46 PM
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Move Along song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XleOkGsYgO8
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:38 PM
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The turnaround in the first one is nice. Obviously you shouldn't send 20 more messages to someone who ignores you. But you sent 1 and it worked well apparently. The second interaction is hard to understand with the translation. Sounds like you came across as probing (but in a good way) to both these women, got them intrigued. Kind of made them validate to you.
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:37 PM
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Sounds good - being a surfer who can play keep up and carry on a conversation, you should do pretty well in general -- Try to escalate the physical a bit next time you see her or rather quickly. Don't want this to turn into you are her surfing buddy.
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:23 PM
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This is quite a while ago, but when I was in Europe, I found Eastern Europe to be the best place to meet women. As far as Paris & Barcelona without knowing the language? I would say clubs with dancing, where less communication is required, or look for places where there will be people that speak english. If you are staying at a youth hostel that is a good place to meet people to hang with or get recommendations on where to go and/or meet women to hang with. I guess you could also go to tourist p…
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:01 PM
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Great job man -- you may have felt that you were "acting" like the life of the party, but you were really were the life of the party. I would say "get buzzed" more than "get drunk" -- light/medium buzz, not wasted. Sidenote observation for others: He was dancing immediately when the party started, which takes balls -- at a lot of parties and bars the women are there first and early, a lot of the guys show up later (and don't dance) -- so he was kind of the pick of the litter and a star for that …
/r/seduction10/09/14 12:38 PM
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Well now my brain is turning ... and can't sleep, although i need to -- so here's a long ramble: Couple main points or essences to it: (i'm kind of going from the end to beginning, may delete some personal details later tomorrow if i find them cringey) Had a relationship with a divorced woman with a 2 year old child - on paper and basically in reality to me a great woman to finally settle down with - more attractive now than ever before, very positive person, kind of a dynamic real estate agent …
/r/seduction10/09/14 06:42 AM
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good luck to both of you with the LTR things -- i personally am a bit older than both of you, been through many of the same things -- i could tell a long story right now about a serious gf i had a year or two ago who had everything to offer and basically everything that i wanted, and i ended up breaking it off consciously -- but i need to go to bed
/r/seduction10/09/14 05:05 AM
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well done -- definitely know where you are coming from now when you are bored, if you feel like it, you can pass on tips and advice to young guys who need it in this sub and elsewhere -- that's what i do sometimes
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:57 AM
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So, this friend of a friend is standing very close to me and I just start a random conversation. She then said something banal, but interesting, which caught my attention. I remember I felt the need to respond with my thoughts on the matter. Next thing you know she's got this look in her eyes and she jumps up and exclaims to the group that she has found her long-lost soulmate... Fast forward a few minutes and we're making out. Unfortunately she had to be dragged away by her friend because it tur…
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:20 AM
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you say there is no point, but many girls in general break up with a bf and immed start dating or banging a new guy ... or cheating on their husband, etc but like i said this is an ethical issue and also potentially dangerous (both socially & physically), so be sure to scope it out first
/r/seduction10/09/14 03:57 AM
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Hard to tell exactly from this, but sounds like you need to escalate quicker. Build attraction from her, not just be the nice sweet boy to go on a nice wholesome date with. Or at least find out if she has the physical attraction back to you at this time. Cute women get asked out a lot on Tinder and have a lot of potential choices most likely. As far as 2nd date specifics ... hard for me to pick from among those 3 for various reasons ... maybe the botanical gardens, if you feel like something cou…
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:58 AM
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Usually if you are standing near a girl grooving to the music and she is grooving to the music, she may give you an indication that she wants you to groove to the music together with her, or you can try. It can go anywhere from there if it happens -- and the nice thing is usually not much dialogue is required, and if you do talk it can mostly be about the band and music and crowd. (just don't be that pushy guy who tries to grind on a chick like 5 times when she obviously isn't interested -- see …
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:40 AM
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Sales is a good field to learn how to read people, communicate with them, address/deflect concerns etc. Which will help with women. It's been a while since I was in college ... maybe try more at bars, parties, mixers, clubs and other night time 'grown-up' things. Change the scenery up. Maybe change the kind of girl you are trying to approach - an older one, a different look than you would normally talk to, different ethnicity, etc. Maybe try a more direct approach when you do talk to one. Sounds…
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:35 AM
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Good stuff
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:28 AM
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as long as you forgot about her and aren't hung up on her, nothing wrong with that - if i was pining for a girl for 2 years waiting for her to come around, thats a diff story
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:12 AM
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diff strokes for diff folks more than one way to skin a cat and other cliches
/r/seduction10/09/14 01:07 AM
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i just responded to similar question as this above direct confident approaches, among other things 'sprung' can mean different things -- you should recognize it when it happens to you example is a girl falling madly in love/lust with you very quickly
/r/seduction09/09/14 09:15 PM
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it sounds like you already know this stuff, i didn't specify for hot supermodel types or superhot girls or any attractiveness level -- i'm not claiming to be an expert on that some women (probably less nowadays with the younger generation who are a bit more savvy to this stuff) have mostly been exposed to 'passive nice guys' -- so it can be a shock to their system at direct confident techniques and other things -- which is part of why it works sometimes -- gets them tingling (thin line between c…
/r/seduction09/09/14 08:51 PM
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a lot of what /r/user/aescetic posted above in this thread - about inner game and improving yourself, being a fun person with positive energy that others enjoy being around, not just your ability to seduce women (stuff I'm still working on all the time) it's just a different ballgame with relationships - when that light goes on, you may see things differently in a relationship - at one time you may have been a regular joe just semi-content in a blah relationship with basically whatever girl chos…
/r/seduction09/09/14 08:33 PM
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what you said the worst for me is when guys ask how do you be witty or stuff like that or when i realize i'm way too old to give advice to someone with high school problems
/r/seduction09/09/14 08:20 PM
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this can be a question of morality/ethics, some may choose not to do this but if someone says bf, fiancee, even husband (in certain cases, be careful with each of these obviously) -- if you are getting a vibe from them at all -- and you ask how it is going or how their love life is, some women will tell you things like they haven't had sex with their SO in a year ... or how shitty/boring their relationship is, etc -- some may say "it's great!", then you definitely move on another anecdote was I …
/r/seduction09/09/14 06:20 PM
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the direct approach is what i personally use in general -- may be diff for younger high school type women (i'm older) also if you lean in and say something in a bit deeper, growling type voice, it conveys this -- particularly if it is something less direct, women generally will understand what you are implying just not being passive-aggressive 'nice guy' who hides his intentions i could just say as an example "you look sexy as hell" -- that looks cheesy typed out like this -- but saying that to …
/r/seduction09/09/14 06:02 PM
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there is tons of good material on this sub (in posts, not just the sidebar), on other reddit subs and also all over youtube and elsewhere (videos are helpful to see people in action) -- there are also reams of guides posted on various places on the internet, most of which you can access for free different stuff works and applies for different people -- i don't have a single 'guru' or philosophy that i would push to everyone -- some guys have a problem getting numbers or talking to a woman, some …
/r/seduction09/09/14 05:10 PM
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She likely will put the kid to bed pretty early and then it's time for you two to get to know each other better. Dating a woman with a kid definitely has a lot more involved than a single woman. Sounds like she is kind of evaluating you as step daddy material if she invited you to her house with her kid on the first date. Normally a woman would not want you to meet the kid on a first date in most cases.
/r/seduction09/09/14 04:53 PM
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nicely written piece and many women do like to talk about sex and 'dirty' stuff
/r/seduction07/09/14 07:53 AM
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If you ask someone about themselves and are actually interested in their response, many people will open up to you and think you are a great listener/conversationalist.
/r/seduction07/09/14 07:50 AM
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you def need to talk to a younger person than me for tips on dating and/or deflowering a virgin, been a while for me on that front -- she is probably is saving it for someone 'special' and it will take a while ...
/r/seduction07/09/14 06:07 AM
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you guys are so much younger than me ... sometimes the advice tips i've given on here are deemed a bit out of touch for younger people a virgin, too? maybe just the simple direct "hey, i'm going to this xxx event at xxx time, come meet me there ... and dress hot" or a spontaneous "i need food and want to see your mysterious eyes again in person, let's go get a coffee/lunch/dinner/drink " --- or substitute something else applicable or clever for the eyes part those should elicit intersting respon…
/r/seduction07/09/14 05:50 AM
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i find some of the FR to be so detailed and they over-analyze every little thing if you want motivation, there are a lot of good youtube videos of people in action
/r/seduction07/09/14 05:34 AM
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You should have treated it like the other girls that you asked out quickly. You're going to have to try to move it to seeing her in real life and off the texting, quickly. And hopefully you haven't been friendzoned too far - you have to let her know that you are a confident male (sexually, I'm assuming you guys are both over 18) and interested in her physically. In general do that, because you can become friends later, but being upfront with your desires will normally keep you out of the friend …
/r/seduction07/09/14 05:23 AM
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It's funny that all 4 of the celeb examples they give at the top didn't last, if I'm not mistaken. Princess Di cheated on Charles.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 05:14 AM
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You are owning your interactions, which is powerful. Without being spiteful or petty (in my opinion). And she may come running back to you, but it's no skin off your back if she doesn't.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 05:06 AM
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Why do you still care about her if she is tantrums and fighting and cheating. Move on. I know that's easier said than done, but from a detached perspective those things jumped right out at me.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:56 AM
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i like that slapping the bar part
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:45 AM
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regardless of what you think of WWE wrestling -- if you watch some of the top guys (Randy Orton as example) they are often very deliberate and slow in their body language and actions -- and they can have the crowd in the palm of their hands with just a little movement
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:43 AM
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the perception over reality thing - that bothers me in general as a trend about society -- words meaning more than actions, apologies for everything that might have offended someone, etc --
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:36 AM
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so much of this seems to stem from how universities have just become bastions of SJW propaganda, with dissenting voices shunned, silenced and ignored -- they've been that way for some time, just seems to have accelerated in the past 10+ years
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:33 AM
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legbeards -- that's funny -- hadn't heard that one before
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:24 AM
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radio guys use a modulator with bass type thing i think carry one of those around in your pocket
/r/seduction06/09/14 06:58 PM
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being socially aware of surroundings and situations, body language, etc is a big thing in general
/r/seduction06/09/14 06:57 PM
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don't text so much, so quickly into a new thing also don't overanalyze it so much sidenote: funny, i once described one of my girlfriends in a similar way about Courtney Cox
/r/seduction06/09/14 06:56 PM
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plus the old standby of time fades all
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:57 AM
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i prefer to be dominant myself - but that is what you hear a lot, especially Japanese and other businessmen -- but you may be right that it could be confirm bias and what makes a juicy story or feeds into misconceptions
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 08:57 PM
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The Bondage industry is full of rich, powerful businessmen as clients ... some people are so in control in most facets of their life, they like to be submissive in others.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 07:57 PM
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Not a bad cycle right now, but this likely won't get better as it goes on over time.
/r/ThankTRP05/09/14 07:46 PM
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you over analyzed it out loud to her most girls in a job like that just want to have fun and chill after work and maybe get drunk smoke weed whatever -- and fuck the fun interesting laid back guys along the way
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 04:08 PM
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"Is this acceptable in my line of work as a young college student.? " Restaurant and bar people sleep together more than almost any profession
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 04:06 PM
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like he said, you definitely could have seen the tattoo, she brought it up herself
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 03:59 PM
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He destroyed it in that article with clear visual images and comparisons. Facts and logic can do that.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:51 PM
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I would prefer some sort of TLDR version on long posts like this ...
/r/trpGAME05/09/14 03:42 PM
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Any age is a good age to learn this type of stuff
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:31 PM
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I don't work in that field, but I imagine a zen-like state of calm would help.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:23 PM
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have you tried it?
/r/seduction04/09/14 06:42 PM
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perfect example of when a girl is sprung, blows their mind compared to what they are normally used to with regular chumps
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:34 PM
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"Scotland is the wasteland" - i liked that good stuff about opening up too much too fast and undeservedly
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:19 PM
0

living in a shack in a 1 horse town https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5EOFktcAxfI
/r/seduction03/09/14 04:57 PM
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It doesn't necessarily mean you failed, it more likely means she is into (and/or fucking) another guy. I wouldn't instigate any contact with her - wait for her to come to back to you, if ever - and then only if it's physical.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 04:54 PM
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there's been times where i've asked "How is that going for you?" or something along those lines sometimes they will say great, sometimes they will say they are miserable in their relationship and never have sex anymore one time i told a girl as i was leaving "let me know if you break up with your boyfriend", and she did the next day ...
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 09:04 PM
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editing as i see more of your pics ... these 3 definitely, 4th up to you you could partially crop the one with the girl if you don't want her full face shown -- i generally do that for a couple reasons http://i.imgur.com/oSld3U8.jpg http://i.imgur.com/CjwktiS.jpg http://i.imgur.com/fN3pMVF.jpg
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 08:55 PM
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and have or try to show confidence -- you like these games already, you probably know more about them then most everyone in the room -- you've been to this place before, it should have somewhat of a comfort level for you
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 08:51 PM
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man things have changed (for the better) -- back in the day 0 attractive women would have been caught dead near a D&D board
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 08:48 PM
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you don't need the bottom 2 paragraphs of your post -- basically what others are saying don't sweat this particular girl too much at this point
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 08:45 PM
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well done, sounds fun
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 08:43 PM
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i love that bottom part there
/r/askTRP23/08/14 08:38 PM
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most people in general prefer texting these days
/r/askTRP23/08/14 08:37 PM
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if you want to get laid you will respond back
/r/askTRP23/08/14 08:36 PM
1

use more sentence & paragraph spacing in your posts --
/r/askTRP23/08/14 08:32 PM
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i think she is probably having sex with another guy if i read this story right ...
/r/askTRP23/08/14 08:29 PM
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you were here?
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:59 PM
1

stop wearing that Napoleon shirt and putting your hand into your vest ...
/r/askTRP22/08/14 04:57 PM
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maybe that's a Germany thing because in America 5'10" wouldn't be considered short by most people, and most all women under 6 ft wouldn't even bring it up maybe you are somehow bringing it up or making them think about it to bring it up
/r/askTRP22/08/14 02:43 PM
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in this interaction, i think you went wrong with the movie night part and then on -- it almost sounds like you could have made out with her that night if the cards fell right oh and personally i would NEVER bring up that they have a boyfriend unless they do first as far as a chance of action happening? sounds like if there is another party it could happen -- at the party take a walk with her or whatever to talk ... isolation ... simple stuff, i know
/r/trpGAME22/08/14 12:02 AM
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first few mins of that video is pretty classic
/r/askTRP21/08/14 11:52 PM
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this isn't deep philosophy, but i generally prefer longer hair by a long shot - a couple women i dated who had shortish hair, i told them to grow it out when you see a 50 year old woman with a neutered short gray hair cut who has given up on sexuality ...
/r/askTRP21/08/14 11:16 PM
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what's the question exactly? your story says it all
/r/askTRP21/08/14 11:11 PM
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the fact that she seems to be in a diff city and is willing to come to you it sounds like, i would give her another chance
/r/askTRP21/08/14 11:08 PM
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good work
/r/seduction14/08/14 08:33 PM
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it's kind of a re-branding and a somewhat co-opting to me, because what I took from PUA back years ago was basically about techniques and philosophy to being a better man and getting laid more in the process, not memorizing routines and all that shit i wish there was another term or acronym for it that i personally felt more comfortable with than either TRP or PUA -- i guess 'self improvement'
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:06 AM
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well, the odds were kind of stacked in your favor here ... just a bit
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:32 PM
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BP: I'll string along in this shitty relationship passively until she breaks up with me. RP: I'm going to take control of my own destiny and end things when they need to be ended.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:29 PM
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use emoticons sparingly and carefully
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:27 PM
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yep plus personally i have to put in a calculation as to whether the boyfriend/husband is the type that would shoot me or curb stomp me
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:23 PM
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you guys use TRP as synonymous with PUA, which I don't agree with -
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 10:07 PM
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"natures emergency brake on your shitty genes" that's a good line man you guys go harsh but often true in this sub your anti-weak chin rhetoric may go a bit far
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 05:33 AM
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It was Bill Paxton in True Lies
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 05:28 AM
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not sure if fake i think most people in general would want take a ride in a Lambo if it was offered to them properly and the guys asking are decent looking and doing their best to be harmless & non-threatening that being said, the first girl was a cunt for leaving her boyfriend to go with the rich guy with the fancy car - he got cuckolded basically
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 05:26 AM
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it sounds kind of like you are more into the game of seducing them, and once you know you've got them, you don't feel the need to finish the deal - you already know it's a conquest - not sure why the bi-sexual part is brought into it, that may be your own issue nothing really wrong with that i guess, i can understand it to some degree ... i would say it's kind of an unusual hobby to have ...
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 05:08 AM
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I don't get some of the mindset of this sub ... when I first learned of seduction/PUA, one of the big lightbulb moments was, "don't be the guy who is envious of that dickhead that got the hot girl" (which we've all done) -- be the guy that gets the hot girl ...
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 04:32 AM
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and as i typed a response to your feedback, i picked up my phone: http://imgur.com/2O7nEY5 thank you for encouraging/reminding me of the potential of Tinder i missed her plaintive Tinder messages due to browsing reddit, but it's all good
/r/seduction09/08/14 02:31 AM
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that's what I was worried about, certain people I know seeing an overtly sexual one
/r/seduction08/08/14 08:25 PM
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how do you change your interests on Tinder? through your FB profile?
/r/seduction08/08/14 08:24 PM
1

de-clutter my house
/r/seduction08/08/14 08:14 PM
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i think a lot of 22 yr old women nowadays will have slipped onto 20 or 30 dicks by that age, but 73 is a lot ...
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 08:12 PM
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simple but unfortunate: treat the ones you actually are into indifferently, like the ones you aren't, and it will work
/r/seduction16/04/14 06:18 PM
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Very interesting article and has implications both for your online 'image' and real life -- but at the same time I personally think self/alone shots are generally more interesting/alluring to the eye and in general "pop" more (especially when you consider a very good-looking 'model' type or someone with an interesting face/expression). A mix of both is actually the best way to go probably.
/r/seduction04/12/13 03:32 AM
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