So, I'm writing this the day after a festival ended so I'm still kind of tired. Also I arrived at 11am home and didn't get more than 4-5 hours of sleep so I'm trying to recollect my memories as best as i can.
Little about me, im 185cm, 75kg, spend a decent time in the gym, nice chest, abs etc. I'm 30 years old, had multiple ltr behind me and some amount of hookups
This is an Eastern European techno festival, so compared to the States I guess the women are more closed off. Just to have some context.
Also, this is my first field report so it might not be perfect.
I entered the festival at around 1am, before that I had a couple of beers strolling around the small town the festival is based in, there are lots of people around. Had a couple friendly conversations with some random strangers. One girl just straight up interrupted me and told me I have a really nice arm, which was a really nice compliment. Sadly they were too young for me, even though I knew she liked me.
Had one more conversation before that and then I entered.
Upon entering the festival I headed for the vip section since this the first time I had vip tickets. Approached one random chick, she was not interested. Honestly, when I saw her face neither was I. The vibe at the vip area was kinda bad, mostly stuck up people, botoxed women, some really hot girls which I'm not sure were in for being cold approached, bouncers, and shady looking guys.
But, the one good thing was that I saw a guy who didn't really fit there and started a conversation. He had the same opinion, and we went to the regular area and he introduced me to his friend group. Talked to his friends girlfriend quite a bit, this girl kinda fancied me and it showed, but her boyfriend was cool about it. Great guy.
After that, I went walking about and made my first approach, there were 2 girls dancing and I walked up to them, said my lines and after a while I was alone with one. She was of Russian origin, cute girl, a bit older than me. Danced and talked to her, she was feeling a bit lukewarm tbh. Even though I think we stayed for at least 30min together, I kinda got bored since we only talked a bit and not much else. She was on her phone a bit, asked her for Instagram, and she was not paying attention to me, so I just left as I was wasting my time at this point. Moved like 20m away and turned my back. But then I felt her arm on my shoulder, she was apologizing and she took me back to where we were and gave me her ig. But honestly nothing changed, didn't feel her being attracted. After a bit, she excused herself and told me to meet up in 30mins. Which I took as a generic lie, honestly I wouldn't even if she called me.
I did a couple more approaches, which didn't lead to anywhere. Some of them had a boyfriend.
After a while, I saw some guys I knew from back home, said hi, and there was a girl with them I didn't even notice at first. I could tell from the get go she was quite attracted to me, she laughed at my every joke, was close to me and the lots. You could feel the tension. This girl was quite shorter than me, blond hair and had a cute smile among other things. So, I started to dance with her bit, we got closer, hugged, the friends left us alone. And when the festival gas started I made my move and kissed her. It's funny because this girl showed interest at first, without even talking to me, compared to other ones before her. Now, on paper this looked good, but her (male) friend kinda told me I was being too forward, which I didn't know how to take. I noticed she wasn't 100 percent in it for some reason, but I had to seize the moment. The friends weren't even there, so I figured it was the perfect moment. After that, I got her ig and moved on.
This is the part where I was backstage, and there I made approaches. I was feeling the flow now, and every approach was met with approval from women. The first girl was happy when we talked, didnt mind touch, everything was going well, gave me her ig. I wasn't pushy since I didnt feel this is the location for making out. And after, like 15-20min of us having a laugh she told me she has a bf. She indeed had one, i think he is like 40-45, so at least 10 years older. I stopped talking to her as I felt this was a waste of time. Maybe I should have just called her for a walk back, who knows.
Approached another cute girl, close to this one and had a good conversation with her, but didnt show me much IOIs, mainly she was standing in front of the bar and i was behind her (after talking to her from the side). She was with a smokeshow of a friend if I may add. And at moment I thought she was more into me since I noticed she was dancing into me with her 10/10 ass but the girl I approached didnt really make an effort to dance with me. She gave me her ig, and I moved on.
Right next to us were some guys with probably the hottest girls around having a blast, thet were all wearing brasil themed clothing. The girls were dancing on their laps etc. It's interesting cause the guys were young, skinny and not conventionally attractive but the girls danced with them without any thought. I jokingly asked the guy what was their secret. He didnt have much of an answer. Those people amaze me.
It was getting close to 7am and the show ended at the main stage and we were going to the side stage. Met my old/new crew I met today and hung out with them to the end. There was a new girl with them, and I could tell she was into me by the way she looked at me, didnt even need game here cause I got pre approved by the crew. I made my move, but yeah - she's got a boyfriend. We danced a bit closely but I didn't want to push it. At 8:30am i left the show feeling pretty drained, lost my voice 2 hours ago moslty so I couldn't even speak too well.
Walking past the show I noticed a girl looking with disgust at the venue. She was a bit taller blond and fit. I made a remark telling her I know exactly what that look was, half expecting her just to walk past me since I was on my last legs and dirty af. She actually stopped and we had a 15min conversation. She was not the festival type, and we engaged in banter. She kinda pushed the banter a bit too much, and I was drained mentally so I couldn't really think too much. Asked her for her ig, and she said no. If I was fresh maybe it would be different, who knows.
Edit: I saw the Russian girl with a different guy, older than me and with a beard, so there goes that. She accepted me on insta for some reason but who cares. Also the really cute blonde chick I made out with didnt accept me yet on insta which kinda sucks, she's much better than the Russian girl. Wish I could have done something different, but really i don't know.
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