7/9/22

Time: 12:30 - 1:30

Preface: I go to the bar ready to go crazy but unfortunately some bullshit happens that causes me to have to wait outside the club for an hour. I didn’t let it phase me but knew I had my work cut out for me because I had less time.

Set 1: I walk in the club catting off because I’m on the phone with my friends, however, I see this one girl that I met in the bar a while ago. We had a crazy connection but it never amounted to anything. We spot each other and instantly hug each other. After the hug one of my AirPods fell she picks it up and said “why you have these in” I say “I don’t like the music” she shakes her head and unfortunately our convo is cut short because her friend pulls her away. I’m not tripping though because I’m still on the phone. After like 45 min I see her again on the outskirts of the dance floor. I approached her again and said “my dance moves got better I could probably beat you” she replied “not with these AirPods” so witty banter ensues for like 3 min. Then she gets pulled away to the middle of the dance floor and I don’t follow because middle of dance floor and me don’t go well. However, I see her one more time when the bar is closing. I instantly hop on trying to at least get her insta because her friend is the biggest cockblock ever so anything further would be shot down. Unfortunately, i didn’t get her insta but don’t stress the night gets better and worse it’s quite complicated lol. Also you can find my past interaction with her in one of my old field reports I named her fate.

Set 3: I’m going from set 1 to 3 because I end the night with my 2nd set and doing it this way will make more sense. After I approach the second set and they walk off I see this tall blond white girl that im attracted to. While I was thinking of what to say she makes this strange face so I was like perfect that’s my opener. I ask in a laughing voice “why did you make that face” she told me the reason. I introduce myself in return and banter ensues. We vibe pretty well for about 10 min but our convo has to come to an end because my wing couldn’t hold her friends interest, therefore, she came and took my cute tall girl away. Before the convo was completely over though I got her number. This was my last approach for the night because I came late and really the girls wasn’t the most attractive that night.

Set 2: im walking around the bar with my friend and I’m looking to approach a woman that catches my eye. I finally spot a women to approach and she is bad. She has nice neck length hair and this orange tube top shirt thing that really caught my attention but at that moment I was kinda in my shell so my opportunity was taken because somebody else approached them. I didn’t let it get to me though and I kept walking around. I spotted her and her friend again on the outskirts of the dance floor so I knew my opportunity was there and I had to seize it. While I was thinking of an opener she did this dance move so I knew immediately how to open. I make my way over, open, and she didn’t get immediately hooked so I had to put some work in. I find out her name is dina. While I am hooking dina I’m physically escalating so hugs here and there arm latched around her hip, and I’m also constantly verbally escalating. Once she is hooked I hit her with my guess age routine. We really vibing now, but I remember to group manage so I tell her to introduce me to her friend. Dina introduces me to her friend and I find out her name is mica. My friend continue talking to mica while I continue vibing with dina. Unfortunately, my friend ends convo with mica and this results in mica taking dina away to the bathroom, but before she leaves Im still physically escalating and I kiss her on the cheek. I don’t really remember how I did it but I did. Now I’m trying to get some reciprocation but her friend starts slowly leading her away. I don’t panic and instantly ask her to give me a kiss before you go. She misheard me because she put her cheek out. I say “no you kiss me.” While I’m laughing at her actions. She say “nah you kiss me” so I kiss her again on the cheek. Now I say “my turn” but she was not with it she said “when I come back.” Im like whatever and let them go not really tripping because I have insta. While they are walking off I ask my friend how’d it go and he told me that mica was down to link after I’m like oh bet. Now the club is closed and we are outside looking for any fourth quarter woman. I ask my friend like where mica at she still tryna link he say idk. Im like alright and thankfully these dudes we knew offered us to go to the hookah lounge with them. Im like alright. Once I go in I see dina and mica. I instantly go up to them and reintroduce myself to see if they remember me. They do, and I get to group managing. I converse with them for like 5 - 7 min then I see my friends I came in the hookah lounge with. I introduce them to the group and one of the guys from that group take mica attention away. So now Dina have my full focus and I’m going in hard, building comfort while at the same time slowly physically escalating so like good eye contact, hugs, and cuddling type shit cuz we on a sofa. Things were going real well too because Dina was starting to be real touchy, pulling me in, grabbing my hands, shit like that. After like 30-45 min of convo the group of guys I came in with left. So now it’s just me and the friend I came to the bar with. This is where things start to go downhill. I’m still gaming Dina really well. We really connecting, and my friend engages mica but he only holds her attention for like 5 minutes. Now while I’m talking to Dina mica is just sitting there watching cause my friend ain’t talking to her at all. This only goes on for like 10 min then mica say “we are going to see our friends.” I’m like alright thinking they gone say wassup then come back. I should of knew something was fishy because Dina stands up and grabs my hand kinda like to take me with her, but still in the mindset of they coming back I don’t think much of it and let go of her hand. This is where I fucked up definitely lol. So now I’m sitting there still thinking they gone come back. I ask my friend who I came with “how’s it going with mica” he say “oh she inviting me over.” Im in disbelief because he hardly talking to her so I say “really, you a magician then cuz you hardly talking to her and she talking bout inviting you over.” he laugh it off. I stop talking to him and now I’m waiting. 5-10 min go by and they now nowhere in sight. In my head I already know wassup because I think I kinda seen them with some other guys. My friend ask me “where they at” I tell him my thoughts and he like I’m gone. He cut so now I’m just sitting there smoking the hookah thinking why did all this work go down the drain. Omg. I take a couple of puffs relax then cut. On the way out my suspicions were right and mica took dina to two other dudes. They spot me walking so I wave and say goodbye.

Conclusion: That second set hit hard honestly because i felt like I was really doing my thing on dina but I guess not enough if she was okay going with two other guys. Huh, I still have much more to learn. Next time I go out I want to lead girls around more because I don’t do no leading at all, and I felt like that was detrimental in the second set. Maybe if I led and then tried to get her out of the hookah lounge the results could have been different but who knows. Next time I’m definitely going to move woman around the venue and see if I can finally pull one to the crib. Also before I end it I must say that my plan to fix up my weakness was successful so if y’all have the same weakness implement the correction I stated and always feedback is welcomed.