Hello everyone! I tried to post this earlier but it did not get much traction for some reason.

So, it was Friday night and I went out with a friend of mine to a Latin club and then a EDM club.

Location #1
When I went to the Latin club, I was really hungry so I ordered some wings. There were 3 women to the right side of where I was ordering my food. I tried to make eye contact with them but none of them seemed interested; so I asked one of the girls if I could have the seat next to them and sat down there. I thought one of the girls was particularly attractive but I did not do anything with that since I was really hungry and just wanted to get my food. As I finished eating, there was another girl that asked me for some napkins from the counter. So, I handed it to her but I also asked for her name. She told me her name and also introduced her friend to me. Since I had just finished eating, I did not shake their hands with my dominant hand and went with the opposite hand. They made a joke about it and then her friend called me "Chiken Fingers". Then, I went to the bathroom to wash my hands. As I was leaving, I said to them "See you on the dance floor!"

Upon coming back, both of those girls were on the dance floor. A drunk guy just started handling the friend inappropriately; so since I had talked to her earlier, I said in her ears "If you need help then, just look at me and wink twice". She laughed. I told her friend that too and she goes "I know right!" But later on, they started dancing with some other guys; so I figured neither of them were interested. So I shifted my focus on other girls, just walking up to them, telling them that they were really beautiful, if they were single, and if they wanted to dance with me and got rejected every time.

Then, I went back to the counter and saw a girl eat the same kind of wings that I ordered earlier. I go "What kind of wings did you get?" She goes "Honey Habanero". I go "That is exactly what I ordered too (as I high-five her)". So that started a coversation between us and after a point, I asked her for her instagram. After adding her, I asked her to come dance with me. She said she was going to leave but I insisted one more time to dance with me and get to know each other but she declined again. Then, I shifted the convo from that to planning our first date. I said "Lets not waste anymore time and plan our first date" She said, "Where are you gonna take me?" I said "Let's go for dinner sometime in (known nearby area). She said okay, I will be looking for your text. Now, I don't know if she is going to go through with it or not but she did not request to follow my Instagram; so don't have much hope anyway.

Then, I saw another girl who I wanted to go up to and talk and I did. I told her how "she was one of the prettiest girls I had seen". We exchanged Instagrams quickly as she was about to leave but I later checked her profile and turned out that she is a fitness model. I saw a lot of pictures with barely any clothing on her. So something about that was off putting to me; so I don't really care if she adds me back or not (she prob won't anyway lol).

Location #2

When I entered the place, I saw this cute blonde girl dancing so I wanted to go talk to her but she seemed like she just wanted to dance and was with her friends. So I asked for her name and after she told me that, I just left her alone. The whole place was filled with attractive girls but they were either with a friend group or their boyfriends. So I just kind of started talking to random people and dancing by myself. Honestly, it was kind of sad that I did not have a girl but I felt like a lot of girls were looking towards me though. I did not approach because again, they were all with their friend groups and/or boyfriends.

At least I don't have approach anxiety for women I think I can go up to and talk to but I don't know how to pick up on cues on if a girl wants me to approach her (even if she is in a friend group - some girls kept looking in my general direction and I had heard that it could be a subtle hint.

But honestly, all the girls there were already really drunk and did not want to entertain any outside attention other than their friends. I think my biggest fear is not getting rejected but to come across as creeps. Like I have seen a few guys (way taller than me, just

I don't know how to feel about this; so just sharing my Friday night with you guys!

Please let me know your thoughts on this! Thanks in advance

PS: Please let me know if there is a specific format to report field reports in this sub. Appreciate the help!