Saturday I learn a lot.
First set 5 girls 1 guy.
It took me a while but I finally approach this set. My wing kept calling me a pussy for not doing it and I finally walk up to a girl in the group. I approach from behind grab her waist and said where do I know you from ? She takes a good look and says I don't think you know me and then immediately, The ugly girl of the group yells "SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND" and I look at the ugly friend and says Okay that still doesn't help me to figure out where I know her from. The girl still looking at me trying to figure out. We have a small conversation, about how she has a familiar face laugh and I walk away.
I notice i'm more aware of body langue now and got the feeling the girl didn't have a boyfriend and she seem very open, if I would have stayed I could have easily made friends with the whole group and got her number. My wing does nothing but stands behind.
Second set 2 girls
My wing was suppose to approach them but he use the excuse that he lost them in the crowd. So I find them and approach. I approach from behind, grab the waist again. I ask where are they from, they ended being from out of town. Now these girl were really attractive. It didn't hit me till after, how attractive they were. My wing finally comes in he at first wanted the more attractive one but she seem more into me, so we switch. My target tells me she is a math major. I said okay whats 2+2 , she gives me this look like are your serious and says 4. I go okay your good. We are all laughing. Her friends says no she is really good with big numbers. I say okay 100+100 she answer again and we laugh. She playfully hits me. I do a little push and pull.
There was a guy who have been stalking the girls all night and I can tell he was working up the courage to approach but never did and he was heavily listening to our conversation with them. He wasn't even discrete about, it was awkward. So I use my body to block him out. Has anyone else experienced this ?
So my wing is running his, ask logical questions game on his target, then out of no where my target started asking these deep questions, like what do you want to do with your life ? and why did you choose your major. She ends up telling my about her child hood. It was weird. She ask for my snapchat and they were off to find there missing friend.
I didn't feel like I created enough attraction with the girl but I did learn something from her. Leave on a high note, She left me on a high note, I wanted to talk to her again, I had this feeling to want to finish our conversation but didn't want to look like a loser following her. Plus I actually felt attraction to this girl and not just on a sexual vibe. I think she gamed me.
I notice my body language was slightly nervous, I would play with my hands in front of my stomach but when I realize I would stop it and revert back to strong BL. I held strong eye contact and tried not to lean in. When ever she said something I couldn't hear I would stand still and have her lean in or move closer.
Last I'm thinking of ditching my wing. I'm doing most of the approaches and I don't like his game. I going to try going out solo.
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