Why do girls do this

tramplemestilsken · 2018-06-17T00:27:53+00:00

It's a sign of insecurity, and chances are she would bring that baggage into a relationship. What would you think of a guy that just bragged about the women who want him? Pretty douchey if you ask me. Edit: would bring

shinn497 · 2018-06-17T00:56:05+00:00

Girls have egos just like us.

recyclablebanthas · 2018-06-17T01:14:14+00:00

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..... she keeps bragging about .....

Bragging is a thing people do when they're insecure about something.

Also, as a bonus, she's showing that she's the kind of person with little to no loyalty to someone she'd be dating. She'd be ready to drop who she's with if someone "better" came along.

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Is this a shit test ? How do I respond to this ?

No.

She's just shitty.

One of the hugest issues guys have is that women can do such shitty things and because we want to get in there, with little to no thought about what we're getting into, we still derpy derp and think, "How can I sign up for a shitty time?!?!" Or, "How can I please the shitty person?"

Hint: Solving this truly, would require you turning yourself into someone the shitty person would like. Someone who'd likely be shitty, too.

You're asking the wrong question. You respond by peacing out and interacting with other, attractive, better people.

thenaturalbigboy · 2018-06-17T01:08:33+00:00

HUGE red flag. I've dated women like this. Either mental issues (not all the time) or huge insecurities.

My suggestion is to drop her ass asap. Waste of time and energy, better women out there.

Dakota_Bryant · 2018-06-17T02:36:23+00:00

She's just bragging. Trying to make herself seem like a catch. So maybe she likes you, but it's a red flag that she's insecure.

IlikeJG · 2018-06-16T22:47:56+00:00

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l337joejoe · 2018-06-17T00:13:12+00:00

Break the habit from her. If she obviously doesn't like it or loses interest in having any kind of conversation with you fuck it then. Walk away.

_Jake_The_Snake_ · 2018-06-17T02:51:29+00:00

I mean you could consider this a shit test but you should not invest in this girl at all. If someone started saying that to me I would ask them why 'flirting' is so important to them. How is that even an accomplishment? They didn't even have sex... what's there to brag about?

That's just the tip of the iceberg: They didn't even date. That tells me she was in a position to date a high value guy and she didn't have the looks, personality, wit, humor, intelligence, whatever--to land a guy like that. Maybe those guys were on to something by leaving her behind... The second clue is that she is hung up on flirting. That's all it is. She is grappling with the fact that she was in the position to land a high value guy and she blew it. She's not interested in looking deeper into herself to see what she did wrong so that the next time a pro baseball player comes up to her, she can date him--she is still just thinking about the fact that there was a (presumably) great guy right in front of her, and interested at one point, but nothing happened between the two of them. Same is true for a chick that brags about fucking any level of athlete or celebrity: they had the opportunity to build something more with that person but they messed it up (and they aren't ready to admit their part in that to themselves). Same is true for being hung up on an ex. The list goes on..

dinnerwithfunions · 2018-06-17T01:50:50+00:00

insecure as fuck. not relationship material. might have stds.

IBeStrokin121 · 2018-06-17T11:55:47+00:00

Red flag... RED FLAG, RED FLAG, RED FLAG!*

*Speaking from two regrettable years of my life I gave to a girl who said this same kind of shit.

She sucks, she's high-maintenance, not worth it. She is either compensating for her low self-esteem or she is incredibly narcissistic. Either way, she's a ticking time-bomb. Run.

saintofferndale · 2018-06-17T12:04:24+00:00

Run brother!

Chamizo4 · 2018-06-17T13:43:36+00:00

RED ALERT RED ALERT RED ALERT RED ALERT

Lightskinswag · 2018-06-17T02:50:25+00:00

A sign that you need to stop talking to her. Even the ones who try to lowkey brag about guys are undateable. but the fact that she's so upfront about it, it's a no for me dawg. I'd steer clear. she's definitely crazy and not worth your time

ExtraCheesePlease88 · 2018-06-17T02:47:51+00:00

She’s just insecure like someone else said. Usually girls like these are easy to break down. Always need someone to compliment them, make them feel special.

blunt_eastwood · 2018-06-17T01:09:16+00:00

What are your intentions with this girl? Do you want a relationship or just something casual?

RenegadeMuso · 2018-06-17T08:32:20+00:00

I wouldn't say girls do this, but will say, this particular girl does it.

eg14000 · 2018-06-17T11:49:50+00:00

The same reason we send dick picks.

muirnoire · 2018-06-17T14:30:54+00:00

Low Value Woman.

greenblue703 · 2018-06-17T16:17:33+00:00

She thinks she's not attractive

cluelessguitarist · 2018-06-17T01:07:26+00:00

I have seen this to be honest dont care about it just have fun at the end everyone just choose their best options

techsin101 · 2018-06-17T11:05:32+00:00

i feel she isn't a happy person, and would continue to be unhappy afterwards.

Trowawaycausebanned4 · 2018-06-17T05:57:20+00:00

She's trying to make herself seem more high value. Source: I have done this

Or if she's bragging to you she probably feels pretty comfortable around you.

Veganpuncher · 2018-06-17T12:11:43+00:00

Doesn't matter if you're the one kissing her at the end of the night.

Option 1. - Too much maintenance, move on;

Option 2. - When she raises said 'friend' ask 'So where is he now?' 'Who's here for you now?' If you want to go and meet him, I'll just leave. Is that what you want?' Start to get up; or

Option 3. 'If they're so great, why are you sitting next to a loser like me?' 'Shouldn't you be schmoozing the DJ?' 'C'mon, let's go have some real fun.' Take her to mini-golf, or an arcade.

In my opinion, she's trying to make herself look more important/high-value. Make her comfortable and show her a good time that doesn't involve being roofied and raped by NBA players and DJs, she might develop a higher self-esteem - all due to you.

ShutterDaze · 2018-06-17T12:31:01+00:00

She’s trying to impress you and make you jealous. It’s probably because she is a bit insecure. Just say that you’re interested in her and not really in the guys she dated before you. Be honest

Zhai · 2018-06-17T12:48:58+00:00

Tell her that this will not work between you two and she will go crazy about you. She got hit on by baseball players etc but given up by some schmuck? What does he have that he feels that he can be better than vips?

SenorSteak · 2018-06-17T12:57:00+00:00

You ignore her because she's an insecure, immature person.

hunterpua · 2018-06-17T13:28:08+00:00

The same reason guys talk about how hot the girl they slept with was or how nice their car is. She's just trying to look cool.

The way you respond to this is really easy. You don't.

No matter how hard a girl brags, it won't affect your ability to get her. The only time you may ever need to address this is if she uses it to make comments directed specifically at you. Like if she said, "This rapper that was hitting on me last night is way more handsome than you." to that just respond with something like, "That handsome huh? I wonder how much dick he gets."

Keep in mind, this girl is basically the female version of a douchebag and you thinking you can change her is as naive as a girl thinking she can change a badboy so if you must, slay that pussy but I would advise against going for anything serious with her.

3oR · 2018-06-17T13:52:55+00:00

I wish she would see this thread and become more self-aware.

tenminuteslate · 2018-06-17T16:51:42+00:00

Since time I met her she keeps bragging about how high value guys have tried to hit on her.

This is a narcissistic trait. She feels so bad about herself on the inside, that she has to make up for it by making you feel inferior. She probably doesn't even realise this yet.

Even worse ... narcissists only like other narcissists, and they have little empathy for others. They can have a life of boasting about themselves and each other.

How do I respond to this ?

Run .... run away.

techsin101 · 2018-06-17T11:09:19+00:00

if she admired their value so much why isn't she with them now
why does she think bragging about her other men dates would impress you?
is she saying that you're not special or high value to her?

WIA20XX · 2018-06-17T00:48:34+00:00

Agreed that she's telling you because you're her girlfriend/tampon.

But why is this important to her in the first place?

Turning down high status guys builds her ego and self esteem, but if actually true builds her social status among other girls.

alphaeastern · 2018-06-17T04:44:48+00:00

This is something she trying to prove her worth

meltboro · 2018-06-17T09:10:24+00:00

Sounds like a female player with a bag full of ego > avoid

recyclablebanthas · 2018-06-17T13:37:54+00:00

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life-of-TT · 2018-06-17T14:35:11+00:00

Just call her shallow. It doesn’t even have to fit the conversation. Watch her explode!

tibiabor · 2018-06-17T15:02:51+00:00

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LatvianGiant · 2018-06-17T02:36:09+00:00

A volleyball player at my university that I talked to for awhile was like this

Title	Why do girls do this
Author	tibiabor
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Date	June 16, 2018 10:18 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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