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[–]ffioca 15 points16 points17 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Congratulations bro you did it 🥳! How did you approach them?
[–]LuukeyBoy 23 points24 points25 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thanks bro, I’ll give a rundown.
First girl was dancing next to me on the dance floor which was packed and I basically just went up to her doing dance moves and smiling asking if that’s the best she could do. Got her to laugh, made small conversation while building touch, half way through a homie I don’t see too much pulled up near me had to tally to him for like a minute or two but he understood what I was doing. After a little more convo and dancing with the girl she has to go and she hugs me and I hug her tighter, after I just went for the kiss and made out with her.
Second girl I felt really ballsy after that first interaction. About an hour after the last interaction I saw another girl dancing, and this one was really cute and yet I had such an easy time to approach and it went perfectly. Just said “Hey. Wants your name?” And had a bit better conversation/flirting with this girl. I could tell she was into it because during pauses in convo we’d dance and I’d let her ask the next question, and after a while I pulled her in smiled and went for it. The cool part about this girl was she asked for my number and I refused and basically told her to give me hers instead. Parted ways after yet saw her after the party with her friends and she came up to me hugged and said for me to text her.
I’m starting to realize this is just like a sport or any other skill, the more you do it the less you think and you just get better with each time. However I understand when girls aren’t into me or I’m not into them and know when to move on. It’s all about that chemistry.
[–]ffioca 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Cool, yeah I agree with the idea that it's a skill that one needs practice. If you feel the chemistry then you need to follow the flow. Keep it up!
[–]Nnk_pyro_maniax1 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Helll yeaa my boi! Live off that high for a couple days & rest up. Got a new weekend coming up soon! 😆
[–]Practical-Cause2896 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Congratulations man, how'd you do it?
[–]CaptainChubbyDuck 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
How the hell do people do this? Im 29M and never kissed a girl. Im autistic and know ZERO about flirting. What makes me most sad of all though is, I do in fact try and I have and can talk to girls...
[–]Delicious_Ad_1853 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Read the wiki, practice, and post field reports to get feedback.
[–]alphatopG123 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't beat yourself up. Some brains aren't wired for this. I feel fortunate that mine is, but if you're 29 and autistic, you're kind of fucked dude. Do you have earning potential? Can you improve your physique? Can you keep practicing game in a safe environment?
[–]CaptainChubbyDuck 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Im sorry what do you mean by fucked??? I can learn the social skills lol. Do you know what autism is? Im very high functioning
[–]Kingzman03 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How did you escalate after initial talk
[–]gulaschgel 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Congrats man, keep riding that wave
[–]ChiIdishcambino 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Congrats bro, hope the party goes well
[–]megainculu 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Congrats bro. I'm really Happy for you. I'm 21yrs old as well and haven't kissed a girl yet. I've been able to flirt with girls and some of them showed interest in me. Some girls showed interest in me when i went to the club few weeks back but I just didn't do anything.
So you making out with 2 hot girls in the same night is really inspiring for me also.
I just have one question: What do you do when you don't have any group of friends who want to go to clubs or bars every weekend? Most of my friends don't drink but of those who do, they don't like the loud clubs and I don't have any wingman as well. I've gone solo clubbing before, but it's better going with friends. So can you give any tips for this?
[–]LuukeyBoy 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hey bro, I never go clubbing or to parties alone. I always make sure I have at least one homie I know at the party/club. But most of the time I know large groups of people there. I would say just try to get your friends to go more or make more friends that like to go clubbing.
[–]megainculu 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I guess you're right.
[–]chefeitje 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You go man 💪
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