Hey Guys

first posted this to R/socialskills but they thought it might be more suitable for here

Former depressed, socially anxious loner here. Have done lots of self improvement the last two years.

Basically I have finally beat my social anxiety and I am actually starting to get some friends, status and interest from women. The problem I am having is now that when I have some potential partners of the opposite sex into me, I have a bad tendency to latch onto them and become kinda clingy(put them on a pedestal). It sucks because I will hook up with someone at the bar or something and then spend the next week obsessing over them. I have not acted on these feelings but they are hard to deal with. How can I work at this?

Thanks!