A couple of days ago I made a post asking for advice for a hiking with someone a decade older than I am. Y’all mostly gave stupid advice considering it was a first date but there were genuinely some great suggestions considering it was more of a trust building exercise. We had a motorcycle ride, held hands during the date and I tried kissing her while dropping her off but got rejected by her saying it was too fast :(

We talk a bit more and the topic of age comes up and then I find out that she’s a decade older than I am. But she’s sooo my type, really attractive and a 10/10 personality! She asks to meet with me in person and tells me that I’m too young for her. Like a sad romantic, I downed some alcohol that night feeling sad but hey at least she wanted to be friends.

But she’s was responding on text so well and what not, one day when I was at the library, she asked who it the weather and I asked her to come over to get some work done. She did, we headed out for lunch and just spent the whole day (till 9pm) at the park. I was totally under the impression of us being platonic friends but the way she talks, looks at me and hugged confused me.

A couple of days pass by, we’re still talking over text and she says she’s taking a class close to my place and I asked if she wanted to meet for lunch. Followed by me asking would it be okay if I made lunch. She agreed, I made lunch and we watched a movie. And just sat on the couch while she laid on my shoulder and we kept talking.

My roommates come in (yes San Francisco is expensive without housemates) and I leave to drop her off at her place since it’s past 11 at that point and I wasn’t comfortable letting her walk alone. First time going into her place, I start playing with her cats and we again sat on the couch and start talking. She asks if it’s selfish to ask me to stay a bit longer and that she likes talking to me. We sit on the couch, and slowly but surely end up somehow with her laying on my chest and my arm around her. We were like that for about 30-40 minutes and she noticed that I was actually really uncomfortable and the couch was too small. And I also remember asking her if I can touch her tummy and that I love spooning but it was also cold.

She says, we can go to the bedroom and changes into her pjs. We get in the bedroom and get in the sheets, and we spooned while I hold her tummy. And eventually we kept talking and I asked if I can slide my hand into her shirt, she thought about it and said this is as far as it goes and she really can’t see our relationship going anywhere since I’m a decade younger (24). I also told her to tell me if she’s uncomfortable since I had a massive boner (I’ve had the boner the whole day! 10 hours!) but she was like yeah I can feel but that’s okay. Eventually I admitted that I was wet and she asks if I wanted to go jerk off. I said only after you. She starts to go in and I asked if I can help, she says we really really can’t and that she won’t be able to stop herself from going further since apparently “she’s finds me extremely attractive”. I promised her I won’t do anything that she wouldn’t want me to do and went to town.

Worst part is, I used the condoms she had (Trojan) which didn’t let me have a rock solid boner (I also jerked off in the morning) but she had the best night ever apparently. We didn’t sleep at all till the next afternoon but man this woman can cum. She came at least 20 times (yes I counted, then I just gave up). But I just couldn’t, I don’t know if it’s cause I’m not circumcised, jerked off in the morning (been doing it every morning) or the condoms…but I’m extremely cautious but also felt insecure enough to go in raw, worked for a second but still I wasn’t hard enough and she was really tight

But before you weirdos get any ideas, yes I absolutely love her personality and will marry her in a heartbeat if we weren’t a decade apart. Attractive, can match my energy levels and charming, what more can a guy ask for?

She only had partners prior, both from long term relationships and I believe her. She’s getting tested tomorrow, I can’t since I don’t have an insurance plan (yes I’m in the loserville right now attempting my own startup) but so far nothing strange but I do plan on getting a plan and getting tested as well.

Thanks a ton for everyone posting on this sub, but my takeaway is that, a woman has to be attracted to you before you can seduce her. She controls the narrative and when/if anything happens!