FIRST COFFEE DATE IN LONG TIME

WIA20XX · 2018-04-25T10:18:33+00:00

Escalation is simply moving from neutral topics to personal ones.

What are you gonna get?
Blonde latte? You would get something like that!

The key to the conversation is that you're not just talking on the same boring content level, you're also communicating nonverbally.

Eyes.
Touch.
Body language.
Micro expressions.
The social situation.

Most of all,

Implication.

The whole idea of a seducer's conversation is that she's being lead to something, not just discussing your lives.

When I have to take a girl on a coffee date, invariably some chick who needs "control" because she can't control herself, I'm trying to see HOW she thinks, not WHAT she thinks. What does she respond to? How do I get her g react to me?

So she starts out with a straight ahead conversation, and I choose whether or not to stay on that slant.

Most girls are deathly boring, and if you let them dictate the pace, they'll bore you and themselves but blame you for it (blame you by not fucking you)

It is your job to be a whirlwind, to or a rollercoaster.

You're not just trying to come off as witty, but you need to take charge of the direction of the date.

And as all players know, you have to get her to move. So if you coffee here,, ice cream or alcohol there. Window shop. Whatever.

But if she's just sitting there swilling caffeine having a normal conversation - she has to really like what you say intellectually in order to get the next date.

Would you rather depend on her logic or how you make her feel emotionally?

james-robertson · 2018-04-25T05:59:07+00:00

As you get to know each other, slowly communicate that you are interested in her. This should be both verbal "Wow you like yyyy? That's awesome!" and physical (ramp up the touching).

At the end of the date (assuming it goes well) you want to be kissing or asking her home, so make sure you escalate enough. You can also ask her on a 2nd date right after the first date (e.g. go from coffee to dinner).

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-04-25T06:42:40+00:00

Confidence my boy, if you can't make it, fake it!

manofsteel1234 · 2018-04-26T00:21:01+00:00

"Yeah bro, we got coffee at 10am and then fucked the shit out of each other!"

You're already friendzoned, that's why it's a Coffee "date."

Title	FIRST COFFEE DATE IN LONG TIME
Author	manofsteel1234
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	April 25, 2018 5:32 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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