First Date - Coffee After Work. Can I and Should I Transition Back To My Place?

grabowskiwedding · 2018-01-21T17:53:39+00:00

It's up to you if you want to try to bring her back or not. Having both brought girls home on the first date and also not brought them back on the first date (but seen them again), I don't think it has an effect either way.

If you do want to bring her back (and this is just what has worked for me), you can bring up a show that you like and ask if she would be up for watching an episode at your place. Find something you're comfortable asking about and ask if she would be up for that.

For example, "I can't believe you've never watched Archer! How about this, we go to my place and we watch my favorite episode and you can see if you like it."

If you don't want to take her back, or she doesn't feel comfortable with it, then try to tentatively schedule another day to see each other near the end of this date. For example, "Bar X has live music Friday nights, would you want to do that?"

I have no history posting on this site so take what I say with a grain of salt, but I think it's important people give tips of what to do, so I wanted to give my two cents.

Let us know how it goes!

Steve_Savage · 2018-01-21T08:41:38+00:00

Not on the 1st date.

Title	First Date - Coffee After Work. Can I and Should I Transition Back To My Place?
Author	tigerhip
Upvotes	3
Comments	2
Date	January 21, 2018 8:33 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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