First Date Ideas?

xuqmiqoxe · 2018-01-21T16:01:55+00:00

concerts - a lot of times you can go to cheap concerts for less than $20 bucks
ice cream - i am sure there are lots of little mom and pop type of ice cream shops you've never heard of, google some and take her there. a lot of times you can find cool places that are unique and unheard of. If you are 21+ you may find a place where they have alcohol flavored ice cream, this is a great first date option.
walk around the park - ideally you want to do this on a first date during the day so don't propose walking in the park if you are doing a night date. Also you would want to combine this with maybe Starbucks or some cheap small place where you can get drinks to sip on while walking.
Starbucks - speaking of Starbucks, that's a great first date. A lot of times guys want to impress the girl by taking her to some fancy restaurant and spend a ton of money on her, but you don't need to really. You can just take her out for 1-2 hrs of Starbucks and then if you like each other more the second date can be somewhere else.
Mini Golfing - if you have this in your area, it's a great idea because you can make fun of her golfing skills and it won't be awkward. You can also pretend to be an expert and show her how to golf - using touching, etc.
Bowling - I usually do this on date 2, but it is also good for first date. Dim lights, inexperience of the girl in bowling and other factors are all in your favor.
Scavenger hunt - This is more advanced, but you can set up a scavenger hunt for her. For example you tell her to meet you somewhere, but you are not there and you then text her to get a note from someone that's actually there. You giver her clues so she can eventually meet you and you two can continue the date by having dinner or something more. This I do not recommend for a first date, but it can work for future dates.
Barnes & Noble Hot/Cold - It's a good way to get to know the girl, you write down some truth/date questions hide them within in the books and ask the girl to find them using hot/cold game. When she finds it you can ask her stuff about her or you can dare her to do stuff within the store. This is a really cool date for me cuz it breaks the ice quickly and makes the girl feel more comfortable, but not all girls like to do this and think it is cheesy/a little childish. After this game, you two can go for some coffee, as far as I know every B&N has a Starbucks next to is so there you go.
Carnival - if you have one is a great idea for a first date
Hiking - if you know of a place that doesn't have a lot of tourists or visitors and is just as pretty as the more populated places she will definitely appreciate it.
Drinks - find a place that has "seductive" lighting, preferably live music and where you can sit next to her. Don't sit across her, it's ok to sit across her for a little bit, but you should eventually transition to sit next to her. Say something like "I don't like how this feels like an interview" or something like that and move close to her. Put your hand around her, play with her hair, etc. Basically pay attention to IOI.

Stevpie · 2018-01-21T14:56:57+00:00

Are you 21+? You can go for drinks. If not, you can go for something like bowling, Pool table, walk in the park, museum, etc.

Title	First Date Ideas?
Author	Personoftheworld24
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	January 21, 2018 10:37 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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