Cold approaching freaks me the fuck out tbh, but I'm sick of reading theory and bullshit. Wanted to finally put it into practice.

Took much longer than it needed to.. had trouble getting myself to do it, but got 3 approaches down:

1- Random girl standing by herself, I walked up insanely nervous and said "excuse me, I just saw you and thought you were cute so I wanted to say hi". She immediately looked away and walked the other direction. Didn't feel good I'll be honest lol.

2- Girl walking next to me, I said hi, I think I saw you over there (just saw her) and wanted to say hey. She was pretty confused but I tried plowing through just saying "you look like an artist" talked about her painting and how I imagine throwing buckets of paint at a wall when I think artist, was a pretty pleasant interaction but I didn't take it much further, just met her and kept going

3- 3 pretty damn cute girls walking in front of me, holding some shit. I just opened asking what they were up to what were they decorating etc. Nothing extravagant, and I walked past my apartment door so I just say seeya later at one point. They all were nervous laughing as their english wasn't the best.

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Noticed two things:

1- Striking up conversations with girls who are walking next to me, behind me, or going the same way is super easy. Just gotta do a lot of them and see if this is a good way for me to game or not.

2- Direct intent is super built up in my head, even though it's just a few stupid words and this is what I want to do (nobody making me do this, it's all me) it still fuckin hurt comin out lol. Probably just

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Hopefully the nerves subside a little more, as I'll keep pushing to get better and updating.