First ever cold approach, got IG & Follow Back. Now what?

DaygameCode · 2024-08-06T01:20:08+00:00

First you need to be aware that it will likely go nowhere. Getting a contact info of a girl doesn’t inherently mean she is interested in seeing you again.

In texts you never wanna ask questions, instead you should always say statements, guesses, assumptions, teases or playful accusations or jokes.

Note that a joke doesn’t mean saying a humourless comment and then adding “hahas” to pretend that the tone is what makes it funny, because tone cannot be interpreted through texts.

Unless you make a huge memorable impression (which is highly unlikely you did) it’s never a good idea to take too long to reply, because the more time that passes the less her mood will be in your favour.

You also should try make a date happen sooner rather than later, but depending on her indicators of interest it may be better to suggest a casual thing rather than a serious thing.

Probably something you plan on doing without her but which she is free to join if she wants to. In other words, you need to make it sound deliberately that you are living your own life and inviting her to join.

Either way, let me remind you again that getting numbers or instagrams doesn’t mean you accomplished anything significant. More often than not a number goes nowhere no matter what you say or so, specially if you didn’t even get a number but just a social media app instead.

madmaxfromshottas · 2024-08-06T01:33:11+00:00

dont expect anything just go with the flow wait for her to initiate that way you’ll know she’s really feeling you.

Spiritual_Word_7288 · 2024-08-06T10:27:48+00:00

Hey, i help men win the dating game and i will give you my take on it:
So first, you got a foillow back and thats good. that is the first condition.
Second what i would do, is try to wait for a good story from her, and comment something that would lead to a conversation.
From there its all your flirting skills that can take you to the next stage which is setting up a date.
But what i usually Do is i comment on her story, flirt a bit, and i dont take it to anywhere.
So in this case she is a bit confused as to why did i even flirt with her, and she loses a bit of her confidence.
After a few days/weeks when she posts another story, i comment again and start flirting with her again, and then i try to set up a date. You can do either way, because if she is interested in you it will work regardless, i just like to play by the book.
Also Feel free to follow my instagram page (link in profile) where i post daily on gaining confidence, becoming more assertive, flirting the correct way, and win the dating game.

Title	First ever cold approach, got IG & Follow Back. Now what?
Author	antctt
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	August 6, 2024 12:55 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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