G'day fellow Sedditors,

After breaking out of a long term relationship I have spent a few weeks reading up and familiarizing myself with all the great stuff on here. I reluctantly decided to hit my local bar/club with a good friend of mine. Deciding it wouldn't hurt but in fact be good for me I was down to try some of the stuff I had read up on. We had been talking about opening sets when my 'round' was called. I headed to the bar and saw a two set waiting to order. I quickly neg'd the first girl for ordering a water (was actually vodka + lemonade, she made me try after I accused her of putting a date rape drug in there) we had a quick chat and she was throwing off plenty of IOI's. After dismissing her and turning back to the bar to order my drink she came back to me and asked "so what's your name", I confidently responded with "Do I look like I give my name out to strangers?!" which she took as a joke and laughed but thats kind of where it stopped. She walked away but when she walked back past me all night she gave me eyes. I went back into wussy mode and for some reason neglected to approach her for the rest of the night and some chump ended up with her.

Seddit, I want your honest feedback for a guy who is just trying to get back into the game.