First Time Redditor - Why Do I Keep Ending Up In The Friend Zone

924924924 · 2016-01-09T23:15:53+00:00

Every time I get close to a girl , make out, talk dirty, hit it off, etc. It automatically ends up that she's also seeing someone else (which makes sense) but she then chooses them and friend zones me. Somehow I'm u attractive because I talk to much I have a bit of an outgoing personality and post to Facebook and Twitter a lot about politics, sports and pop culture.

But I'm a social 26 year old male 6'5 nice good looking never killed anyone before lol - that's my type of humour And I've never had a girlfriend or even been on date. Somehow I know tons of gorgeous girls that think I'm a great buddy to drink with and don't mind me even though our relationship started with my tongue in they're mouth.

Then I see people with weird Mohawks and perching a that find love and I'm like wtf does EVERYONE HAVE THAT I DONT

But then all the girls with boyfriends think I'm great ??? It's so confusing

Ihaven't gotten laid in over a year and I've been actively meeting people and I'm not a Dick but I know how to seduce it always just comes down to 2nd-3rd base then I get put on the bench.

And I know I don't sound confident but I am trust me im just confused right now and always in general

I'm tired of hearing one day you'll find the right one like fuck I'll have you laughing for the entire time we're together and you go fuck the jacked idiot who can't put two words together??? Like atleast fuck me cause I make you smile and we have fun together don't friend zone me

Sorry it sounds like I'm ranting but I'm sure I'm not the only guy in the situation like I'm 26 now and I don't even know how to ask a girl out

And don't say just wait it'll come because I know kids that were dating when we were in grade 3 and now I'm 26 I just want to see what all the fuss is about and not be the guy that shows up alone every time

And I know how to get laid I say all the right things and seal the deal they just say no honey and act like we're related

JakalDX · 2016-01-09T23:05:10+00:00

You fail to act sexually towards them.

danimal714 · 2016-01-09T23:54:08+00:00

Same boat buddy. Im 31 never had a relationship only dated girls briefly. I get social anxiety and nervous when with a girl or in social areas, but like was said before I dont act sexually towards them do fear of losing a friendship over expressing my feelings. My friend just the other day was hanging out with a girl who knew me. He was telling me she was saying I was so nice and she loved me, also that I had a sexy bod. He then followed with "Dude all girls who know you love you and not just girls even guys, youre just a great guy to be around." Fml

SmoothPrimal · 2016-01-10T04:20:02+00:00

Wait so you make out all of these girls and they end up friendzoning you?

Title	First Time Redditor - Why Do I Keep Ending Up In The Friend Zone
Author	924924924
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	January 9, 2016 11:02 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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