I had a date planned for tonight, relatively soon actually. She texted me about 15 minutes before she was supposed to be here and told me she wasn't going to make it.

I called her and asked what the deal was. She said something about having a bad day and wasn't up for it. I said I understood, was sorry she had a bad day, but I would have appreciated some advance notice so I could make other plans.

Then she said she felt bad and would call me back. Called me back, said she'd be coming down after all.

The thing is, it sounded like she wasn't very up for it, like she felt guilted into it. We've had a few dates prior to tonight and have already slept together a couple times.

Now I think I'm going to be all in my head about how she'd rather be elsewhere. Advice on overcoming this and salvaging the evening? I think I'm being a big baby about it.