I was talking to this girl I met via Instagram. She was studying here from the US, but had the intentions of getting a work visa after her two years was up. We was talking everyday and she was saying how she was super excited to meet up (Today) and that it's refreshing to meet a genuine guy. She said she was telling all her friends about it and her flat mate.

Three days ago she changed her tone. She said she's not the one night stand kind of girl and wants to know what I am looking for. I said that I wasn't looking for that and wanted someone genuine and just see how it goes, which she agreed and said she was very excited to see me. She out of the blue stopped sending me messages, and then short replied me. I asked her if everything was alright. She ignored me till the next morning.

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Then came the dreaded "I am not interested style message, don't want to lead you on" and she deleted me on all social media.

How on earth did that come about? Did her flatmate (who was very very pretty) kill it? or did she just get cold feet? Or was it the fact she doesn't want anything with anyone? Women are hugely confusing.