As promised, here is a report on my first date ever! I made a post her a few days ago with some questions for this date. I'm a 22 y/o virgin with no experience in dating/relationships and havent kissed a girl in 5 years.

The date itself went pretty well. Initially I was doing most of the talking but quite quickly she got more comfortable and she couldnt stop talking lol. We had drinks, went for a walk and had dinner. In the end I gave her a quick kiss and we went our ways.

Some pointers and takeaways:

  • I was too much of a pussy this date. The only reason it went well is because she was already attracted to me. This was super obvious by her actions. Fot example, there was something in her hair and when I brushed it off she was smiling and giggling like crazy.. Nevertheless I didn't do any kino which was dumb. I held very strong eye contact though and rarely "looked away first".
  • I could have kissed her much earlier on but I was too scared. Of what? I dont fucking know.. I was 100% sure she wouldnt reject me.. In the end just before she left we had a quick kiss but it was without passion and quite pathetic. It was more of a "I cant believe I didnt have the balls to do it before, fuck it, I will just do it now in a half-assed way" kind of kiss.

We already agreed on a second date and I will make sure this time I will be more physical and intimate. On the bright side, she was really pushing for another date so I didn't fuck up.

All in all, this was a good experience for me. I think that with practice I will get the hang of this. Thank you for the advice you guys gave me (even though I didnt follow it by being a little bitch).