Hi guys (and gals)! Second FR first time REALLY sarging and using a pivot (don't really have a good wing but plans fell through I'll get to that later). And frankly it's best to write an experience down as soon as its done then go back and edit it later (like dreams) so sorry if there's some formatting issues I'll try my best.
Ok night started off was supposed to meet some friends at the bar and drink/have a good time/try out the new seduction DHV's/openers/such and such routines I had learned. I had planned for a small group but the only person that didn't fall through was this girlfriend of mine Pivot. Story of J is that her looks are (for me at least) HB8 but because of her shyness and depression she goes down to a 6 . I attracted her when I had long-term depression(which I have since gotten over) so that's something we bonded on and plus she's honestly a really cool girl just one of those that don't show the world it. I was the first one to the bar because I didn't give her the exact bar I was going to just the downtown location where I was going. So while waiting on Pivot. I sit next to HB7 and her friend HB5 at the bar. HB7 = N. The bartender greets me and I make sure to shake her hand and get her name. Seriously just a life skill I'm trying to learn I'm HORRIBLE with names and meeting random people is always fun(especially if their in charge of your drinks).
Me: "What's your best beer here? I haven't been here in a while."
Bar: "Well we have this long list" hands me the beer menu
Me: "Thanks I'll look it over"
I turn to face N who is right next to me and open with "Hey I haven't been here in forever what beers do you ladies like to drink?". From this I go into a DHV story about me spending a summer in Sicily and drinking the beer there. I start connecting and eventually decide on a captain and coke. BUT the goal has been achieved I'm in. I continue with my story of my time in sicily. I revolve it around this old women I used to see every day I ran. She taught me palm reading so I segue into Mystery's (I think that's him) palm reading thing where I claim she taught me how to read palms. I kino during the story giving an example of what the women did the first time I saw her, which was palm read me. Then again I kino'd to read her palm. "Read it" gave a dissapointing look then gave her hand away.
This worked immensely. I faultered here though. I asked non-interesting questions in the most interesting way possible by trying to thread it through my Sicily story. I went from being in Sicily to playing guitar in Sicily for some kids, to just getting back from a gig playing at beaumont for some cancer kids. This got her interested and telling me what she did which was a music journalist. During our convo I conciously kept eye contact and a smile on my face. This worked a little against me because while focusing on those things I missed some of what she was saying and how she said it. BUT practice in the field > recording for FR. She asked me what kind of music I played instead I gave her my influences and asked for hers. She reciprocated and this continued until my friend showed up shortly after. During this however a friend on N's showed up. Not necessarily a AMOG but just an aquantainces. Good IOI though she apologized for stopping the convo and reintiniated after the guy had left. During this time i was texting Pivot directions to the bar.
A couple things that were good IOI's. I have a pick necklace. Not peacocking it actually means a lot to me it's the first pick I ever got. She touched it and complimented on it. I explained it's meaning and she shared a story about her first pick. Pivot showed up so I broke the thread and went to another end of the bar to catch up. After a drink I suggested we move on to another bar but I wanted to get N's number before I left. So I found her in the spot I left her. Mentioned "Hey I have to go, we're going to rock on 3rd but here" gave her my phone with the keypad ready "give me your number let's go out next week." She entered it called her phone during which I made a joke (and give me your opinion if this is a neg or a DLV) "gonna put me in your do not answer list I see" she responded no I gave her a hug goodbye which she kissed me on the cheek... but it wasn't a peck it was like that soft longer kind? So I moved on. How'd I do? Any questions?
ONTO BAR TWO
Now caught up with my pivot (who i was starting to realize wasn't a good pivot BUT I still needed to see what it was like having one and I hadn't seen her in a while) we went to the rock on 3rd. Classic college, twenty somethings bar. Pivot hadn't been to a bar in a while and only drinks smirnoff ice and "girly drinks". I catch a 3 set HB8, HB7, and another HB8 when I walk in. One of HB8'S I accidenally make my target (I'll explain) so we'll name her T. Now as me and pivot our walking past. and near the seats (which are next to the 3 set) I stop and loud enough for the 3 set to hear i say "OK this time your NOT going to get smirnoff we're getting you an ACTUAL drink." This catches the 3 sets attention and I reel it in
Me:"look what would you ladies get her? My friend hasn't been to the bar in a while"
They go on discussing drinks with Pivot and I mention I stayed in Sicily again during which I mention I have a great story with that (this is after Pivot has decided her drink) and release with " I gotta order my drink but I'll tell you in a sec". Get my drink return to girl. So I go into the Sicily story. I stayed there for a couple months, used the palm reading routine that I threaded with my stay in Sicily. Kino palm read did the same thing. We start building rapport. I hint at what I'm going to school for, mention I'm a nerd to which she reacts....pecualiarly. She mentions a) that she loves nerds and b) is one herself so I try and qualify her by saying
Me "so ok what's your nerd cred". She get's flubbed on this and asks
T: "what's a nerd like what do you consider nerdy?"
Me:"a nerd is someone who's passionate about something".
I find out she's a wedding planner and is passionate about linens, flowers....and one other thing I can't remember.
After the rapport I go into a story I heard from Mystery that goes with me and my exotic dancer gf were on a trip to Las Vegas and got stuck in a ditch. During which I mention I'm sexual my whole family is to which she responded to very well with body language. I took it a step further but here's where I think I might of over DHV'ed. I mentioned we were meeting this porn director friend of hers this girl. Without going into to much detail the story goes as follows. During the trip there I told a version of me and my GF were in our way to LV, she wanted me got off the freeway and after reminding her it's ok let's do something else I'm in control. The I'm in control thing she really responded to. We were there in Las Vegas having a good time her friend Nat comes into my room and wakes me up, she mentions "so your gf tells me your 'well equipped'" during the story I try and play the naive guy but it ended with me getting offered a porn scene. She laughed but gave me a shit test. Something like "oh just brush off your shoulders i could do porn if I wanted to". I didn't hear the whole exchange because of the loud bar but tried to play it off best I could. After a couple more exchanges she mentioned she had to go to the bathroom. This was the biggie for me. If she came back from the bathroom and went to me instead of her friends I could possibly f-close. Unfortunately she went to her friends that were near us and after a few minutes explained they had this friends bday party to go to. I realize I should've isolated but her friends were a couple feet away so I kinda figured I isolated enough.
Part 3
HERE'S THE BIG THING. In addition to seduction and attracting women I'd also like to become more friendly with guys. Growing up with a single mom I've always been intimated by other guys I don't know. I tried this by doing an opinion opener on (and this might be where I went wrong) a AMOG. I was talking with Pivot just having a good time and trying to get her out of her shell. We got onto the topic that you can't meet friends in just any situation. I called over a guy awkwardly. He was about a foot taller and at least 20x more muscle but seemed upstanding. I asked him the topic question just seeing how this situation would work out because hey part of this process is I want to be able to go up to guys and become friends. Well it kind of backfired. I asked for the guys name while explaining the question and got the reply of "I never gave it". Never got his name. I tried this again with a clear Beta and got a little more success.
Results
I'm in limbo text with T and have a coffee date close to the attraction spot with N. Great night though! Please offer critiques, comments ANYTHING. I wanna know what I did right and what I did wrong. I have my own thoughts on both but outside opinion is always better! Thanks so much in advance I couldn't of had this night without /r/seddit
tl;dr Pivot had mixed results and opening to guys is harder than i thought
Edit: updated something I missed with T.
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