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| 8 | How did you overcome Approach Anxiety?Hair do, yes. Hair in general, no. | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 03:06 AM |
| 51 | How did you overcome Approach Anxiety?Follow up to the compliment thing. Remember, a good rule of thumb to complimenting people (not just women) is to compliment them on something they can control. Eyes, boobs, beauty and hair (to a degree) aren't something someone can control and WILL make women a) think you're cat calling them and b) make them defensive. Also you just don't want to be a dick. Things they can control? Their hair cut, clothes (don't be creepy), an activity they're doing, the list goes on. Just remember, what they ca… | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best response to a ‘rejection’ text?"Wellp, that sucks. Best of luck!" You're allowed to be upset if you felt a connection with someone. You're NOT however allowed to make them feel bad about their choice. It's short, expresses your disappointment but doesn't come off as a retaliation and is a good send off. | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 07:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I have a stronger 'frame'?You have a stronger frame by not worrying about it and having fun. If people think you're taking a social situation too seriously (I.E. like a dance number where you have to get the moves right) they'll notice. Relax, have fun, and remember to stand up straight. Not gaming out every response to every conceivable question. | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 04:58 PM |
| 17 | Idealizing every girl I meet?Then you have to find some self worth. These women you meet aren't any better than you dude. They make mistakes, have some just gnarly period shits (yes that's a thing), are scared, they have someTHING about all of them that makes them human. Just like you. | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 12:30 AM |
| 13 | Idealizing every girl I meet?If that's the case discount point 1 and move onto point 2 | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 12:20 AM |
| 176 | Idealizing every girl I meet?No matter how pretty or awesome or smart or cool or sexy a girl is always always ALWAYS remember the following 2 things. She poops just like everyone and that somewhere out there someone is sick of her shit. That's all. Women are human, not goddesses. They deserve your respect, not your admiration. Unless they're rocking a bitchin' guitar solo clearly. | /r/seduction | 10/09/15 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Reality Check: Girls just want to have fun.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5CPbg9ljE4M | /r/seduction | 17/08/15 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Reality Check: Girls just want to have fun.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQheaCpjH0I | /r/seduction | 17/08/15 05:12 PM |
| 2 | How best to break it off with the other women after you've decided to be exclusive?Nah it's more I've got w lot of life stuff coming up (grad school mostly) and I don't have the emotional capacity to juggle more than one girl right now. Wow that makes me sound like a dick but yea that's basically it. Id like to try polyamourous relationship but not right now. | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Lets say you gt her number monday but because of logistics you can't meet till 3 or 4 days later. How do you maintain attraction?These are online dates though. They haven't met me yet. | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 05:51 PM |
| 1 | An underlying thing I don't think a lot of the seduction community talks about.Your mental health directly affects your behavior and your perception of the world . Your behavior directly affects your ability or inability with seduction and interacting with other humans. | /r/seduction | 10/12/14 01:53 PM |
| 1 | You made me realized I was so wrong!Exactly plus it feels legitamately better to do good things because you actually want to do them and not for some reward like you're a dog doing tricks. | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 11:09 PM |
| 3 | You made me realized I was so wrong!"Nice Guys" tend to think they are "owed" affection/love/sex. They have this sense of entitlement about them. Actually great guys do things because they genuinely care about people and its amazing once you can tell who does what for what reasons. | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 05:30 PM |
| 3 | An underlying thing I don't think a lot of the seduction community talks about.No I'm saying people have depression and anxiety issues since it affects about 1 in 10 adults suffer from depression alone source | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 03:43 PM |
| 4 | An underlying thing I don't think a lot of the seduction community talks about.Try seeing someone with it go to a party sometime. Whether it's an imagined disability or real it's still real to them and they need professional help to get over it. Also practice some empathy man. | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Got engaged about 3 years after discovering r/seduction. Some stuff you might not think about when starting out.Not even that just be willing to shop around some shirts for some people some ways. I used to go to sears and all that bs but I know go to places like banana republic because I have wide shoulders and chest. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Got engaged about 3 years after discovering r/seduction. Some stuff you might not think about when starting out.In my experience at least few retail workers work on commision. A lot are very helpful. Plus you could always go on /r/malefashionadvice about how a shirt and pants should fit. | /r/seduction | 22/05/14 03:25 AM |
| 4 | Just approached a girl. .Dude that's awesome! Great job. | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Sigmund Freud QuoteYou're right, but they were recognized for what they are - theories. They had been taken as empirical "science" incorrectly for at least a generation. | /r/seduction | 24/11/13 05:24 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed? Two different resistancesNo they are attractive. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Use The Boyfriend Technique To Get Laid FastWell that's awesome........ | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Use The Boyfriend Technique To Get Laid FastOk but what if she rejects you? What then? | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Starting to feel like there's something genuinely undateable about me but I don't know what.Damn your logic Wernstrom!!!! No but you know what I mean not necessarily a PUA but just more social with women AND men. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Starting to feel like there's something genuinely undateable about me but I don't know what.And questionable qualified. Alas I need to read up more. Any suggestions for a more naturalist approach? | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Starting to feel like there's something genuinely undateable about me but I don't know what.Quite a lot. Haven't found one that clicked yet. Read magic bullets and strauss's stuff. I'm looking to become a natural and become more social overall. Any good reads? | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Starting to feel like there's something genuinely undateable about me but I don't know what.I am in game design. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Starting to feel like there's something genuinely undateable about me but I don't know what.I want to find someone to share my awesome world with. Someone to go on an adventure with. I'm graduating with a bachelors in comp sci and going to start my own game company. Yes I have. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Starting to feel like there's something genuinely undateable about me but I don't know what.But if you don't ask for feedback how can you improve? That's like cooking without tasting it. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Starting to feel like there's something genuinely undateable about me but I don't know what.I do kind of interview her. Don't get shit tested but when I do I just shrug it off with something to the effect of "because I'm awesome". I need a test date......someone I don't know that I can go on a date with and see where I go wrong. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Starting to feel like there's something genuinely undateable about me but I don't know what.No. I think I'm pretty awesome. Breath is good. This is how I look (http://i.imgur.com/08EKn.jpg). I am just graduating college. Gay vibes no, I'm comfortable in my sexuality. No. No. I have a passion for video games in much the same way a composer has for music. I'm smart. Not scared of anything. 25. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 03:07 AM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 12/28/2012 (please upvote - zero karma)As was mentioned earlier, some(most) people say actually NOT to drink when you're picking up women. If you think about it it makes sense, your learning and need to have a quick wit. That being said no one is going to notice if you say to the bartender "hey can I have a coke but in a tall glass". Tip the bartender well and he'll remember you. Bartenders want to help you get a girl so get to know them well. It will help demonstrate value. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Rejected in day game rejected at a bar rejected at a rave. Beginning to think I'm just not attractive.Trying to transition into getting a "big boy job" as it were. And no I live with the parent at the moment. I feel like I should work on these things first.......... | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Rejected in day game rejected at a bar rejected at a rave. Beginning to think I'm just not attractive.25 | /r/seduction | 16/12/12 05:23 PM |
| 1 | What do I do when she says "Maybe"It's usually via text though | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 10:18 PM |
| 1 | What do I do when she says "Maybe"No. It's always via text. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 01:45 PM |
| 1 | So question(s). I don't know where to begin.Thank you very much! | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Females are attracted to men who have, or at least portray that they have a high social value. Seddit, what would be your tips on developing and portraying a high social value toward females?What if you're a "yea but" kind of person? Yea but this, yea but that Any tips for getting out of that? | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 06:05 AM |
| 1 | So question(s). I don't know where to begin.Ah ok Thank you. | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 05:26 AM |
| 1 | So question(s). I don't know where to begin.So say I'm at a restaurant on a date. I used to work in food industry so I'm always VERY courteous with wait staff. Everytime the waiter comes by I will always say "No thank you we're fine" or "thank you very much" when they bring the food. That's kinda the only time I'm overly courteous I guess. I never say sorry or excuse me if it's not warrented but I always say please and thank you. | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 05:09 AM |
| 7 | How do I get this one girl? This is how.Hey you need a oneitiies reminder every once in a while you know? | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How can I improve this?Fuck your right. It does change the mood. Hmmm maybe I can combine the two and let them choose. Something like "you get to choose from the following! 1) your choice of talking to me about a)sex b) (thing related to her interests or passion) or c) lawl cats (idk lol) or 2) you may talk to me on the phone......hm I think I can slip in my number and let her decide where to take it after 4-5 messages or keep talking to her. | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 08:15 AM |
| 1 | How can I improve this?Hmmmmmm ok but with say facebook. I make it a rule not to add people on fb. It makes me to available which is bad. How do you get around that? | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 03:48 AM |
| 1 | How can I improve this?Hmmmmmmm. Even so trust is very hard to develop without being in person. | /r/seduction | 14/08/11 12:24 AM |
| 1 | How can I improve this?I don't. My goal was to make a template 'game' that I could play that I could use instead of writing detailed individual messages to every girl. Sort of a best sum game. I would send these messages and play the games with girls. My first question weeds out women that aren't nerdy or don't like to have fun. If they don't answer or say that the question is "stupid" then chances are I wouldn't want to date them anyways. After they get the question right they find out it's actually a game show. I li… | /r/seduction | 13/08/11 10:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Major LMR,kino escalation and why you should try for the kiss at the middle of the date, not the end.Not always in my experience but again I'm out of practice as of late | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 12:08 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Major LMR,kino escalation and why you should try for the kiss at the middle of the date, not the end.Which was why I found it weird since I hadn't been talking about sex for most of the night. But I guess I hadn't developed enough comfort. | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 02:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Major LMR,kino escalation and why you should try for the kiss at the middle of the date, not the end.Yes I forgot to thank you for your advice. Honest, straightforward and best of all useful. Thank you again. | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 03:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Major LMR,kino escalation and why you should try for the kiss at the middle of the date, not the end.Thank you. I agree upon reflection that I was pushing too hard. I'm used to more socially aware women plus I'm out of practice but our right I should have gauged her comfort better. Any tips on how to do that? | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 10:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Major LMR,kino escalation and why you should try for the kiss at the middle of the date, not the end.How do you play hard to get? Usually I just be outgoing and awesome. Is just a part of push pull? Have some reading material I could look up? | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 10:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Major LMR,kino escalation and why you should try for the kiss at the middle of the date, not the end.It was hot as balls and I don't like meeting at a bar usually too noisy an I need to develop comfort an kino first cafes are better suited for this in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 10:42 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Major LMR,kino escalation and why you should try for the kiss at the middle of the date, not the end.True but it's a thing we obviously have in common and I touch on it for a brief second before going of into just dating in general | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 10:41 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Major LMR,kino escalation and why you should try for the kiss at the middle of the date, not the end.Ahhhh gotta remember to pull........ | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 06:18 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Major LMR,kino escalation and why you should try for the kiss at the middle of the date, not the end.I didn't realize that. Your right. How do you be assertive without striking out? | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Cars in the shop how do I transition My date tonight to a bar around me without dlving?Nah never drink on the first date. Least not enough to get even buzzed. Messes with my ability to think fast and keep my inhibitions in check. | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Cars in the shop how do I transition My date tonight to a bar around me without dlving?Yea ended up being something cheap and simple. | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Ok recent fuckups and lessons to learn. Questions to ask at the same time...Yea the number girl is over and done with and the ex pic girl turned out to be making a mountain of a molehill thanks guys! | /r/seduction | 14/07/11 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Ok recent fuckups and lessons to learn. Questions to ask at the same time...Fuck, frame forgot about that. Yea I responded by taking them down. More of a "thanks for reminding me to do that". Which was the truth, I changed my profile pic but I guess an out of sight out of mind thing was with the rest of em. | /r/seduction | 13/07/11 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Ok recent fuckups and lessons to learn. Questions to ask at the same time...no the were pictures of one gf | /r/seduction | 13/07/11 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Ok recent fuckups and lessons to learn. Questions to ask at the same time...nah not a bunch of chicks just gf pics | /r/seduction | 13/07/11 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Ok recent fuckups and lessons to learn. Questions to ask at the same time...Yea but it wasn't one or two it was at least in the teens, just whatever accrued over 9 months of dating. | /r/seduction | 13/07/11 06:32 AM |
| 2 | [Short FR] Don't know how to proceed. How do you escalate physically when the girl isn't into PDA?Yea. I did hand on small of back but I made the mistake of just letting it stay there like I was trying to get something | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 07:09 PM |
| 2 | [Short FR] Don't know how to proceed. How do you escalate physically when the girl isn't into PDA?Yea....sorry about that. | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Kino: Two video series, from Lance Mason, and Lovedrop & MysteryFuck I need to get back out sarging. | /r/seduction | 30/06/11 07:38 AM |
| 1 | [Short FR] Don't know how to proceed. How do you escalate physically when the girl isn't into PDA?How should I have gone about it? | /r/seduction | 29/06/11 10:30 PM |
| 2 | How to I get a social life ... from scratch ?Go to the reddit meetup tonight! | /r/seduction | 25/06/11 11:17 PM |
| -1 | Well Seddit. I'm back. What now?do you have any suggested material from wygant? haven't read much of his | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 05:19 PM |
| 0 | Well Seddit. I'm back. What now?Already goin at it with a sidebar good fellow lol. Unfortunately one of the downfalls of my past relationship was that my ex never saw the benefit of this subreddit (and to my fault neither did I to a degree once I was in a relationship) and convinced me to get off. I would still lurk from time to time but anytime I would post a helpful comment on an fr or whathave you she would get very jealous. I was heavily into life game. Such as styles 30day | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 04:01 AM |
| -1 | Well Seddit. I'm back. What now?Very true. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 13/06/11 03:58 AM |
| 1 | The Definitive Seddit Inner Game CollectionThis was a post from a while ago that I made for beginner's. Might help out http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dlo3j/some_mantras_and_proverbs_that_help_immensely/ | /r/seduction | 13/04/11 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Nice Guys Do Get GirlsHa four words that make up probably the best advice I've ever heard for beginning afc's | /r/seduction | 08/03/11 08:25 AM |
| 0 | Some QuotesHa I love the getting there. Once your there you get to see where you've been. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Some QuotesThis is especially true of exes and people you knew in high school. Great thing is we have this thing called "facebook" now to show just how shitty those fucktard's life is. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Some QuotesAnswers are useless without context and comprehension. I could tell you 90%. Now I'm sure that 90% is an answer to something but without understanding the question how can you be extected to understand the answer to that question? | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Some QuotesAim for success, not perfection. Never give up your right to be wrong, because then you will lose the ability to learn new things and move forward with your life. Remember that fear always lurks behind perfectionism. Confronting your fears and allowing yourself the right to be human can, paradoxically, make you a far happier and more productive person. I need to take this to heart. | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 08:29 PM |
| 2 | RANT: Do you have a genuine passion for learning about seduction? If not, LEAVE.Two things are 1) we've seen a big influx of new users. New people are awesome but with new people on the net come with trolls. which leads me to my second point 2) Seddit is very very VERY troll bait heavy. You have a lot of guys posting intimate details about their night with women and asking advice on how to pick up said women. My first post to this subreddit I was trolled so we have to be on the lookout. Further we have to keep the mindset of "don't be a dick". If you don't agree with someon… | /r/seduction | 28/02/11 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Thank you seddit.Great job! Do me a favor? Next time you see a "forever alone" or some guy whining about how he can't find a girl in askreddit or Relationship_Advice, tell him your story and get him the fuck over here. | /r/seduction | 22/02/11 06:58 PM |
| 10 | Plea to seddit - PLEASE READI partly feel bad. When I was single I posted a FR at least twice a week. Now that I'm taken really isn't any reason to go out and I think that's at least partly why there is a lack of FR's. The good ones get girls lol. | /r/seduction | 18/02/11 04:44 AM |
| 1 | [FR] New pickup strategy discovered "Angel/Goddess Technique" - GREAT SUCCESSIf you have the body positioning right this could really work. I suggest a contigency plan if HB-B breaks the set or goes off to get a drink/bathroom out of boredom. When you comin to dtown man? | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Moment of realisation while chatting to an afc.Yea but you do it cause your awesome. Not to mention that guy your dating now is pretty swanky if I do say so myself. | /r/seduction | 13/01/11 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Moment of realisation while chatting to an afc.Please tell me you repeated this to him when the hangover cleared the next day. Lol would hate to waste a realization like that. | /r/seduction | 13/01/11 09:46 AM |
| 2 | How the hell do you smile?In terms of seduction I always think "I know something you don't know" in that kind of playground recess way you used to hear. | /r/seduction | 13/01/11 09:42 AM |
| 13 | A Thought Experiment to Gauge Your Skill with WomenThe real message of this article is to basically unlearn everything romantic movies and romcom's have taught you. Love almost never happens at first site, no girl that you've known this briefly is worth an extraordinary amount of time. Guys (including myself) confuse that. They keep trying because of the sheer fact that they convince themselves the reward is worth the work. When in reality if she hasn't earned that work and that time out of your life then realize she isn't good enough for you an… | /r/seduction | 05/01/11 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Post your New Years Resolutions, everyone!1) Get a six pack or at least a 4 pack 2) have a 4some 3) get on the deans list 4) keep being the awesome person I am and love my girlfriend to the best of my ability | /r/seduction | 29/12/10 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Hello Seddit, I'm a Forever Alone'r starting a romance blog, I have to meet one new woman every day and write about itThe best part about this is it helps you accept rejection. Because hey I'm gonna tell you right now your GOING to fail and your going to fail hard. So accept the fail, work on it and move on. Just make sure to not dwell on them though with the above strategie, the great thing about it is that it's kinda hard to dwell with such a quick exchange. | /r/seduction | 23/12/10 09:41 AM |
| 1 | two quick questions, one inspired by my odd side-effects of learning seduction.Thank you! I figured a lot of people could use advice like this not just the seddit community | /r/seduction | 14/12/10 12:23 PM |
| 1 | two quick questions, one inspired by my odd side-effects of learning seduction.Yea like really weird names like Tiesha or Dante or Lin something you don't get to often I can remember. But like in my phone I have literally 5 different Jennifers and 4 Daves | /r/seduction | 13/12/10 01:41 AM |
| 1 | two quick questions, one inspired by my odd side-effects of learning seduction.That's the other problem I'm having is I'll look at my phone and just go "who the hell is this person?". And with the presence thing it happens like at work or a group of people are in a circle or I'm off to the side or something. | /r/seduction | 12/12/10 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Small bit of advice but Idk if this belongs in RA or seddit.Yea I realize now that it was kinda stupid of me to even consider my guy friends when my women was in pain. I ended up going home with her anyways just glad I made the right decision. | /r/seduction | 05/12/10 07:46 PM |
| 0 | How can I do this..har har I'm not, just trying to help. | /r/seduction | 05/12/10 07:44 PM |
| -1 | How can I do this.."Hey do you know where blah di blah is?" Make sure blah di blah is on the way to where she's walking. Starting at the start of the block is your best bet. Problem with this is you have maybe 15 seconds to go from opener to number close (depending on various factors). Put in a time constrate and a QUICK dhv story. You don't even have to finish it. If you don't get the number close that's fine, if it's a small campus you might run into each other again or if you want that number go for it. | /r/seduction | 05/12/10 07:33 AM |
| 3 | Small bit of advice but Idk if this belongs in RA or seddit.Good point. | /r/seduction | 05/12/10 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Small bit of advice but Idk if this belongs in RA or seddit.Hope for the best prepare for the worst. Thanks again! | /r/seduction | 05/12/10 06:24 AM |
| 3 | Small bit of advice but Idk if this belongs in RA or seddit.Yea her pain was getting up there but she could have had a good time at the bar. My friends were fine with us leaving since they had other things they could do as well so it wasn't like they were "dogging" me or anything it was more just a "ok well I'll catch you guys later" and we went our seperate ways. I wasn't concerned about my status as much as striking the balance between being a good friend and being a good boyfriend. Like I've said previously I'm out of touch and practice on the actual … | /r/seduction | 05/12/10 05:56 AM |
| 5 | 12,000+ sedditors. Where are all the quality FRs?I agree with every bullet point except > What did I do wrong when I [insert AFC strategy here]? One of the ways I got better was breaking down every thing I did wrong step by step. Couldn't kino escalate? Find an instance where I couldn't and post about it in hopes of finding advice on that one aspect and improve. Didn't have good text game or didn't know how to respond to a asd? Transcribe the text convo and see what I could differently. Stuff like that. Sometimes that's the most scientific/log… | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 09:18 AM |
| 2 | 12,000+ sedditors. Where are all the quality FRs?exactly | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 09:13 AM |
| 2 | 12,000+ sedditors. Where are all the quality FRs?Yea but that belongs in RA you know? | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 07:46 AM |
| 3 | 12,000+ sedditors. Where are all the quality FRs?honestly the reason I haven't been posting more is because I got a gf. Maybe seddit is too good? | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Got out of the friendzone. Its not what you think.Ah well yea that part I get. | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Got out of the friendzone. Its not what you think.Hmmmm your point is kinda lost on me but I'd like to know more. Like when I meet a girl in my social circle that has a bf then I just don't view her in a sexual way and stay friends with her. After that point I never look at her in that light. If I meet a girl in the street or something and she has a bf I usually just move on because I don't want to be "the other guy". But your way might make the best of both worlds. Mind explaining? | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Got out of the friendzone. Its not what you think.Honestly best cure for that is to get other friends. Not "new" friends just more friends. Make yourself less scarce and then you realize "wtf am I doing hanging around this dbag." Hope this helps | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 11:02 AM |
| 3 | Got out of the friendzone. Its not what you think.Do you think it's because they don't want to come off as egotistic? I know that was part of the reason I didn't for the longest time. | /r/seduction | 27/11/10 10:59 AM |
| 1 | DAE find traditionally hot women (aka 9-10's) mostly unbearable?the scale to me includes personality too. Some playboy bunny that's dumb as a rock and a bitch is a 7 to me, I'd do her but anything beyond that lasting more than 15 minutes? Nu uh. Now, my gf on the other hand is a serious 10 great body and amazing personality. She has her flaws but frankly that's partly what makes her a 10 :) | /r/seduction | 25/11/10 08:08 AM |
| 2 | How does a single, socially inexperienced male in his early twenties, with no dating experience, meet women?There's a tpb download http://lmgtfy.com/?q=style+life+%2030+day+challenge+tpb | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 12:13 AM |
| 1 | How does a single, socially inexperienced male in his early twenties, with no dating experience, meet women?link to thread? | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 12:11 AM |
| 2 | How does a single, socially inexperienced male in his early twenties, with no dating experience, meet women?I will back this up. PU, for me at least, was just about getting girls numbers and forming relationships with them but it was and still is about getting new guy friends because hell that's just as scary sometimes. | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 12:10 AM |
| 1 | How does a single, socially inexperienced male in his early twenties, with no dating experience, meet women?fuck, improve I forgot about that I still need to sign up thank you! | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 12:08 AM |
| 1 | How does a single, socially inexperienced male in his early twenties, with no dating experience, meet women?frame of mind* | /r/seduction | 21/11/10 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How does a single, socially inexperienced male in his early twenties, with no dating experience, meet women?Agreed just I hate to see a man get left behind you know? Speaking of core issues I'm still hoping to get a thread started on sticking points | /r/seduction | 20/11/10 11:58 PM |
| 2 | How does a single, socially inexperienced male in his early twenties, with no dating experience, meet women?Style's 30 day challenge is like a how to guide. Nothing I wrote specifically references it BUT it's still a must have. | /r/seduction | 20/11/10 11:53 PM |
| 13 | How does a single, socially inexperienced male in his early twenties, with no dating experience, meet women?sighs Look you said it yourself > I'm a male in his early twenties who was a social shut-in through high school and college..... I have not had much contact with women in real life, aside from female classmates. I get it man I do. I was there ok? You think your the introvert that came here looking at this mountain of a challenge in front of him? Your not. Don't take that as an insult take it as encouragement. If they could do it why not you? Give me one good reason why you can't and they could? … | /r/seduction | 20/11/10 11:57 AM |
| 17 | How does a single, socially inexperienced male in his early twenties, with no dating experience, meet women?Ok your text screams "I need an attitude adjustment". SO here goes. First off while you didn't mention it in your text you may have depression. Go see a professional counselor in this case, most university's have them for free or check your insurance people. If you don't then let's move on. Second stand the FUCK up straight, 2 exercises, think about a balloon taped to the crown of your head, now imagine that balloon lifting up, see how you have perfect posture now? Keep it that way. Next stand a… | /r/seduction | 20/11/10 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Hmmm this might belong in Iama but I feel I can help more people out in this one......Your going about it wrong big guy. Psych lesson for ya ya ready? Guys are information gatherers. Women are emotional connectors. Think about when you meet a guy. Second question you ask is something along the lines of "what do you do for a living?" if your in school it's what's your major blah di blah. WOMEN on the other hand form emotional connections with people. That's why what you say actually DOESN'T matter. It's how you say it and the vibe you give off. Wanna know how I got my girl? I aske… | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Just stumbled upon seddit, and...Your a natural man. All of this stuff? Dating, women, relationships. That came natural to you. Us? Well we missed that class for one reason or another. Since your new I'll go through each of these. 1) Alpha male isn't necessarily an alpha male but the best version of yourself. The dirty little secret about meeting people is that your there to advertise yourself in one way or another. Being the best version of yourself under the title of being "Alpha" is a way to put a name to the mindset 2) We w… | /r/seduction | 06/11/10 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Seddit I'm doing a 3some saturday! And it's all cause of you!I've had one before but crap your right. Any direct link? | /r/seduction | 05/11/10 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Full close via OkCupid.A game you can play http://www.seductiontuition.com/organic/the-cube.html | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Full close via OkCupid.ok but how do you guess which ones a lie and/or play it off right if you guess wrong? | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Full close via OkCupid.How did you play 2 truths and a lie I kinda wanna get into playing that game. Right now I do the cube (with moderate success), question game and fuck/marry/kill | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 06:01 PM |
| 2 | How I finally got the girl by making her laughThis, though it might be a lil cold to do that. I do like the idea of instead going to the movies going somewhere more interesting, where you can isolate and kino escalate | /r/seduction | 29/10/10 05:51 PM |
| 1 | got a number, but forgot her name, how to proceedI have this problem as well. Women have a lot of different ways to spell their name just ask in a text "Hey how do you spell your name again? I think I put it in wrong" Your not asking for her NAME per say....just how to spell it. | /r/seduction | 18/10/10 06:18 AM |
| 1 | /r/seduction, I started a blog documenting my own 30 Day Challenge.gah seems like I'm kinda stuck on this part. I get the number but then very lil response. Might be because I'm running day game might not. | /r/seduction | 18/10/10 06:16 AM |
| 2 | (Return of) Seddit Weekly Challenge #3: this one's heady.Some good movies for the beginner, hitch, oceans 11 (really any of those guys but especially Clooney and Pitt), If you can find 'em some stuff with Bing Crosby and Frank Sinatra are really good. For intermediate this should take no less than an hour and there should be no less than 10 on each page! | /r/seduction | 18/10/10 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Games to play on first date when there's a lull in the conversationHey I use what works. And what really works for me is the cube and fuck/marry/kill. What do you use? | /r/seduction | 17/10/10 10:25 AM |
| 3 | Games to play on first date when there's a lull in the conversationQuite. But it has never worked that way. It's just a fun little game nothing serious. | /r/seduction | 17/10/10 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Games to play on first date when there's a lull in the conversationAin't saying she would. The only thing I'm trying to do is create attraction at this point. One step at a time. | /r/seduction | 17/10/10 10:13 AM |
| 6 | Games to play on first date when there's a lull in the conversationSo when like you get that awkward pause, just sit back and say nothing? | /r/seduction | 17/10/10 07:43 AM |
| 4 | Attraction Over TextIf there is any kind of exclamation or emoticon. Basically the longer the message and the more effort she takes to make sure her positive point comes accross correctly the better. Keep text conversations as short as possible. They should be used for attraction and setting up a date (this is before you have f-closed afterwords you've already won enjoy it!). The longer you spend texting her the more of a risk you put being in the friend zone. You want to stimulate her feelings not her mind and tex… | /r/seduction | 16/10/10 09:10 AM |
| 1 | God damn boyfriendsHmmm other day. Girl in oral comm class. After making a remark on our upcoming info speeches Me: "What're you doing your speech on?" Her: "Yoga" Me: "Oh that's so weird I was JUST saying how I've been looking to get into yoga but I need a yoga/workout buddy" Her: "No yea I'd totally be into that" open up my phone give it to her Me: "Yea give me your number I'll text you sometime when I'm not studying or working" Text convo a couple days afterwords (ver batum) Me: "Hey what're you doing tonight?"… | /r/seduction | 10/10/10 05:33 AM |
| 1 | God damn boyfriendsUsually somewhere on my college campus. Either in class or walking the quad or blah di blah just somewhere on campus during the day | /r/seduction | 09/10/10 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Thank you Seddit! [My FR]Hey man you got a long road but I really REALLY applaud your attitude. If you ever get frustrated remind yourself "Look how far I've come!". Best of luck to you sir. | /r/seduction | 09/10/10 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel like this?Fuck no dude if anything the game made me realize I've got a LOT to learn! | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel like this?That photography though. It's notorious for the self-depricating hipster b.s. pretenious DOUCHE crowd.....sorry know a lot of hipsters, my loathing of them burns like my hatred of twilight. | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel like this?..........well played sir.....well played | /r/seduction | 04/10/10 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Some mantras and proverbs that help immensely when starting pick upIf it's a warm heartfelt shit eating grin smile then you can never do it to much. If you talk your face naturally moves in and out of that smile. | /r/seduction | 02/10/10 04:56 AM |
| 3 | Some mantras and proverbs that help immensely when starting pick upThis is assuming you have a grooming kit. I place one hand at the spot where my hair line ends and just basically cover my hair then just buzz the back of my neck with that hand in place | /r/seduction | 02/10/10 12:14 AM |
| 1 | The best reason to "hit the gym" isn't gaining strength or losing weight...And to train for the zombie apocalypse can't forget that | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Sticking pointsFalse answers = b.s. answers "oh I'm just not that into you" "your a nice guy but I want to focus on my career" "i don't have time right now". I want to have the mindset of everything that goes wrong in seduction is something I did or didn't do. But a lot of the reasons I'm getting ( no physical attraction despite proper posture and fit body, no spark for examples) I don't know if I can control. | /r/seduction | 27/09/10 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Sticking pointsReally? I mean is it really ok to not tell a possible gf that yea I've cheated on a gf? Granted I'd never do it again but for some reason I just wouldn't feel right. | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Sticking pointsSome were from last couple weeks some were from a month or two ago. The reason I ask them that question that way is so I can breakdown specifically what I'm doing. If it forces logic thennnnn I have to do it that way. You can't solve a problem without first knowing the problem. The question might sound dickish or needy but I ask it when I have nothing left to lose so I can get a straight answer. | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Sticking pointsThe baggage was I had cheated and been cheated on by my first gf and proceeded to have a fucktarded relationship but again happened over 4 years ago and I've moved on since. I'm fit, shower daily, teeth are ok general hygiene and grooming up to par. I added details where I could. I got over depression last april and am now trying to rebuild and learn how to be happy which I have down, how to be social which I'm learning and most importantly how to attract women which I'm having the most trouble … | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Sticking pointsadded some more details | /r/seduction | 26/09/10 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Little to no approach anxiety, but I'm clueless after openingHoly crap I want to use a nickelodeon opinion opener.... something like "Hey let me get your opinion on something. My friends over there and I have a bet/ I have to get back with my friends. Remember when you were a kid? Ok what was your absolute favorite nickelodeon show?" How's that? | /r/seduction | 16/09/10 01:32 AM |
| 1 | FR date with okc girl with a great kino move!No I live in the D | /r/seduction | 13/09/10 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Girl keeps canceling should I just cut it off? (Side note she lives in my apt building)Yea I don't except like I said we're BOTH actually busy people you know? | /r/seduction | 09/09/10 03:39 AM |
| -1 | What should I text back?Fixed, sorry iphone | /r/seduction | 31/08/10 08:30 PM |
| -1 | What should I text back?Fixed sorry iphone | /r/seduction | 31/08/10 08:30 PM |
| 4 | Hi seddit. I'm a girl wondering where one draws the line between tease and slut.It's all about the REASON behind why you slept with someone. If you slept with him to get him to like you/buy you stuff/get over daddy issues/get some kind of validation then yea your a slut. BUT if you slept with a guy cause you really like sex and wanted to have sex with him then the people who call you a slut are literally jealous that they don't have the sexual maturity you do. There is a caveat to this. If you DO have sex with a guy you have to be prepared that he might not call you the nex… | /r/seduction | 31/08/10 09:07 AM |
| 3 | Woman gets a major neg from chauvaunist; cross posted from r/funnyIt's a art | /r/seduction | 29/08/10 06:17 AM |
| 1 | What are you doing **today** that will make you a better Sedditor?I don't have oneitis. I already asked about that. I am meeting girls and all that but I'm hitting this wall where I can't get girls attracted and to the hook point. | /r/seduction | 28/08/10 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Semi FR with one big questionHmmm your a good man holds out hand I'll take your word for it. | /r/seduction | 27/08/10 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Semi FR with one big questionGod I hope your not a troll.... | /r/seduction | 27/08/10 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Semi FR with one big questionReally? You can do that after talking to a girl for < 5 mins? | /r/seduction | 27/08/10 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Semi FR with one big questionOk but this "hit on her" you speak of......foreign concept. I know push/pull as far as kino escalation but I'm lost in the road between openerville and hittingonher town | /r/seduction | 27/08/10 09:30 AM |
| 0 | What are you doing **today** that will make you a better Sedditor?I'm working on inner game. Trying to learn how to "let go".....still struggling with it | /r/seduction | 26/08/10 05:35 AM |
| 0 | I'm a girl back at college. I want to meet people/guys but I'm feeling a lot of approach anxiety.Just go out. Say "fuck it" and go have a good time. You don't need people to go out with, just walk around. Learn how to have fun with just you. | /r/seduction | 21/08/10 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Talking with strangers..That's awesome dude! Might I suggest two different approaches you can do. First off talking to people is like working out. If you don't talk to a lot of people that day you really won't WANT to talk to anyone else. But if you'll notice the more you talk to people, the more you want to KEEP talking to other people. We're social animals and engaging in conversation is good. That being said here's two exercises you can try ready? 1) talk to 100 people in a day. Go around with a pen and either say "… | /r/seduction | 18/08/10 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Text game and that line we all walk between decent guy and arrogant jerkhole. Sometimes you just have to go for it.That teasing is only bad. I had to unlearn all the negativity it brought on me and realize it can be fun to tease | /r/seduction | 18/08/10 05:29 AM |
| 3 | Sedditor LocatorDetroit | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Sedditor LocatorMichigan | /r/seduction | 15/08/10 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Cocky/Funny questionDLVing sorry | /r/seduction | 14/08/10 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Cocky/Funny questionHow do you do that without dlving? | /r/seduction | 13/08/10 08:22 PM |
| 2 | No kiss on the lips plenty of kino though, mixed signals and a dancer. FR 08/13/10Thank you! How do I do heavy kino without being overly sexual? Cuddling I tried but it was the first time, she wasn't having it. | /r/seduction | 13/08/10 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I tone down the cocky funny when I'm with friends?What if like women your dating call you a narcissist? what are some things you can throw out to defuse it? | /r/seduction | 13/08/10 08:12 AM |
| 0 | FR 08/08/10 Party with a semi wing making some improvement. How do you keep a girls interest when her friends and acquaintances keep coming by?tone is lost in text that's mostly why I use em | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 05:07 AM |
| 1 | FR 08/08/10 Party with a semi wing making some improvement. How do you keep a girls interest when her friends and acquaintances keep coming by?Yea I kept my frame, made sure I shook hands and introduced myself to everyone that came in just holy hell there were people coming constantly lol. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 03:14 PM |
| 2 | HOLY CRAP I just figured something outyea Lion king is awesome what I usually do is put on a pixar movie(not up though BEST pixar movie just that sad part at the beginning isn't what I'm going for) or Aladdin. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 03:12 PM |
| 1 | FR 08/08/10 Party with a semi wing making some improvement. How do you keep a girls interest when her friends and acquaintances keep coming by?I kinda did that she took her semi-drunk friend to the bathroom I went and mingled for 2-5 mins (wasn't keeping a stop watch) then came back to her and reinitiated kino. One thing I learned is DO NOT DRINK. Style was right even though it's a party grab the lightest beer you can if people give you shit say you gotta drive later. I wasn't too bad with my woodchuck hard cider but I still downed the six pack in less than an hour (it tastes like apple happiness), as such I was tipsy but still in the … | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 01:23 PM |
| 1 | This girl is SOOO hard to talk to!hmmmm not really....I'd say don't bring up the things you remember until AFTER you've built rapport and kino escalated. | /r/seduction | 08/08/10 01:20 PM |
| 1 | My story.I usually will relate a story about my travels somewhere, or try and thread an answer they have. | /r/seduction | 02/08/10 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Gah! Frustrated but in a good way just confusedI guess just how to transition from opener to attraction building. I came off a little hectic cause just all this info in my head is just....well THERE. It's like learning the chords to.....I don't know "earth angel" and not knowing how to play guitar yet or sing. Yea it's there and hell you might even be able to play the song. But you still don't understand HOW to play the song or WHY those chords sound good. There are so many nuances I feel like I'm missing. Like there's the matrix and I can't… | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 12:19 PM |
| 1 | My story.After I do my opener I can't transition to DHVing and building attraction. The umbrella concept and practice of building attraction is the real one though. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 10:03 AM |
| 0 | The female wing man (wing woman/girl?) is the greatest gift God has ever given.Yea I'm trying out a pivot right now. Funny story my friend brought her around as a female interest/friend which auto-made her no nookie from the start. I had some success with a pivot before so I'm gonna see how it works out! | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 09:38 AM |
| 0 | My story.Any chance we can chat up? I feel like I missing something I'm still in the river between afc and pua | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 02:26 AM |
| 1 | New to Seddit? Check here first!I really really really REALLY wish I could upvote more thanks so much! I now have reading material for.......wellp ever! | /r/seduction | 26/07/10 07:55 AM |
| 3 | It's so good to see that many FR here on weekends!Yea mine tend to be walls of text but I look at them as, for lack of a better term, journal posts. Get everything down as soon as you can then just have people comment on em because the longer you wait the more you "edit" the story in your head. Maybe you did something wrong and want to correct it so you highlight that, or vice versa you did something right and want to highlight it. What at least I realized is that you need BOTH. The good and the bad. For much of the same reason to | /r/seduction | 26/07/10 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Attractiveness scale?1-10 is subjective. It's how YOU preceive the person. Maybe she's got a great face and body but is dumb as a rock or just doesn't mesh with your personality. The scale adjusts. I also use it as a caliberater. | /r/seduction | 24/07/10 11:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 07/24/10 first time using a pivot mixed resultsEh it's not the guy friends part but more the being comfortable around them and being able to disarm aMOG's effectively. | /r/seduction | 24/07/10 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Update/Field report p.s. if there is a god he is a DICKExactly. I honestly do. If she wants to go with the church that's her choice and I'll support it even though I'm not religious. Just sucks to be cockblocked by god. | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Not new to seddit, but new to posting here! here's my intro and field report.Lil advice is if your still new to it plan out what your at least going to open with. Even if it's "hi, so I was thinking about that coffee" say it in your head and outloud. Clear your head, be IN THE MOMENT. Don't think "wow I'm talking to a girl that's really pretty and blah balhity blah" have her words ring in your head and LISTEN TO WHAT SHE IS SAYING. Great FR though man best of luck! | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Update/Field report p.s. if there is a god he is a DICKNope she is dead serious about it. I was wrong when I mentioned earlier about her waiting to "decide" she's actually waiting for an answer from god. Which is somewhat worse. She discovered the catholic church and while I haven't gone into her beliefs with her yet from what I've gathered and sensed it's an answer and guidance in her life. Which good for her, but leaves me at a loss. I'm standing true to my frame now. At least if it doesn't work out I won't feel like a pussy afterwords | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Update/Field report p.s. if there is a god he is a DICKI'd like to avoid the guilt. Who knows maybe there's a secret option c. I still don't know enough about her religious views (to heavy of a topic for a first meet up) to know how much consideration this nun thing has. You don't just knock around that idea but at the same time weirder things have happened. | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Update/Field report p.s. if there is a god he is a DICKHmmm best way to answer is individually: 1) Her views on religion are hers alone. I know christians get a bad rap for pushing those beliefs on others but during our "non-date" date she explained that she does not share that belief nor does she share some other beliefs of the modern catholic church. She grew up agnostic and is NOW catholic ( I know, usually works the other way). That being said she wants to bang me. Her body language and just about every kino test I could do told me so. 2) Dirty … | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Update/Field report p.s. if there is a god he is a DICKI'll agree with the frame thing. It's something I'm working on/struggling with because where do you draw the line of still being able to sleep with yourself at night and respecting a girl while still not buying into her frame. There are things about her that are very non-nun like, for example she's bi, she has very liberal political, cultural and religious views. She's busy with her thesis atm and I have some stuff coming up so were both in limbo till next friday. Gonna try for a few non-importa… | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Update/Field report p.s. if there is a god he is a DICKNo because she made it clear that while she was very sexually attracted to me this whole nun thing is something she's considering. A kiss would start something she'd have to end. There IS that attraction there I could sense it in her eyes, her kino and just this pull I could feel. But I felt like this was a situation where I'd get more traction being the gentleman than the player. Religion is very important to her as I've mentioned so by respecting that and her decision I was showing her that I … | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Have a semi date tonight how do I not let this become a just friends thing?Fr: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/csdqd/updatefield_report_ps_if_there_is_a_god_he_is_a/ | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Update/Field report p.s. if there is a god he is a DICKlol sorry about that wrote it at like 4 am like I said. It should be better now | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Update/Field report p.s. if there is a god he is a DICKAnd she is. Becoming a nun is something she's CONSIDERING not like it's set in stone. Hence why she was so defensive about this being a date. She didn't want to start something only to have it end and her to well become a nun. | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Have a semi date tonight how do I not let this become a just friends thing?Please refer to some of the other replies I gave its kind of an update/something I missed | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Have a semi date tonight how do I not let this become a just friends thing?Here's the thing that I've missed about why I was confused in the first place. Here's the cavieat that has me so confused. During the text convo two things were said. After saying goodnight she poceeded to ask "Is alchohol one of your no no drugs because if it is I'm off your list" She was refering to dealbreakers we were discussing earlier one of mine was drugs. I responded with a "If that were the case I'd be off my own list" and just explained stuff harder than pot, while I'm ok with other pe… | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Have a semi date tonight how do I not let this become a just friends thing?sorry replying to yours the same as above:Here's the cavieat that has me so confused. During the text convo two things were said. After saying goodnight she poceeded to ask "Is alchohol one of your no no drugs because if it is I'm off your list" She was refering to dealbreakers we were discussing earlier one of mine was drugs. I responded with a "If that were the case I'd be off my own list" and just explained stuff harder than pot, while I'm ok with other people doing it is just not my cup of t… | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Have a semi date tonight how do I not let this become a just friends thing?Here's the cavieat that has me so confused. During the text convo two things were said. After saying goodnight she poceeded to ask "Is alchohol one of your no no drugs because if it is I'm off your list" She was refering to dealbreakers we were discussing earlier one of mine was drugs. I responded with a "If that were the case I'd be off my own list" and just explained stuff harder than pot, while I'm ok with other people doing it is just not my cup of tea. Also she thanked me for filling out he… | /r/seduction | 22/07/10 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Lessons in gameTo add to that I'm still fairly new but I look at it like learning. Specifically music and/or guitar. It's not the routines themselves you should learn. But how and why they work. When your learning guitar, one of the best ways is to just learn cover songs (that's how I learned my chords and good chord progressions). Whether it be something really easy or incredibly hard it it's familiar because you already know the song. There's comfort in that. After you learn the chords you can make your own … | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Lessons in gameplanks work really well | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Let's make a big list of date ideas (first dates and day 2s)Ones that I like are: * Walking around a downtown area (offers a lot of opportunities to go into shops connect) * go to toys r us (show her your fun and can have a good time anywhere) * find a fair or some event around town | /r/seduction | 19/07/10 08:27 AM |
| 1 | In defense of canned openersoff topic but that's how you spell segue? I'll show those grammar nazi's now! | /r/seduction | 18/07/10 08:28 AM |
| 1 | I am an ex pick-up instructor, AMAWhat mindset would you recommend? | /r/seduction | 14/07/10 01:34 AM |
| 2 | I am an ex pick-up instructor, AMAHow do you hold back and not offer to much up without coming off as boring? If you DO get the ljbf speech how do turn it around? How do you generate interest? What are some mantras you use to get in the good mindset? (I.E. basketball players thinking to themselves "I can make this shot") | /r/seduction | 13/07/10 09:25 PM |
| 5 | report: full close ending long dry spellGreat field report! I'm just getting into the game myself (longtime ljbf/afc) how'd you keep it mysterious if you dont mind me asking? Like how do you pull pack and not reveal everything without being boring? | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 06:24 PM |
| -1 | report: full close ending long dry spellGreat field report! I'm just getting into the game myself (longtime ljbf/afc) how'd you keep it mysterious if you dont mind me asking? Like how do you pull pack and not reveal everything without being boring? | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 06:24 PM |
| -1 | report: full close ending long dry spellGreat field report! I'm just getting into the game myself (longtime ljbf/afc) how'd you keep it mysterious if you dont mind me asking? Like how do you pull pack and not reveal everything without being boring? | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Dear Seddit, I made you a cheat-sheet.there a downtown area near you? how about a park? coffee shops? beach? anywhere OUTSIDE is good. | /r/seduction | 30/06/10 09:16 PM |
| 2 | New to r/seduction and I'm reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I'm kind of having a conflict.....kinda figured when I googled it and all that came up were Naruto | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 08:58 AM |
| 3 | New to r/seduction and I'm reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I'm kind of having a conflict.....Oooooooook???? I'm ungodly new to all this (just joined the community a week ago and picked up the book the other day). Tutorial? Helpful links? Body language and how you hold yourself exercises? | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 08:33 AM |
| 4 | New to r/seduction and I'm reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I'm kind of having a conflict.....I'm sorry but rasengen? | /r/seduction | 28/06/10 08:18 AM |
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