Text game and that line we all walk between decent guy and arrogant jerkhole. Sometimes you just have to go for it.

Hi seddit! Been in the game for about 2 months now. I'm showing improvement but building attraction and rapport is something I'm still learning how to swim in the river between afc and pua. That's not what I'm going to talk about here.

What I AM going to talk about is an experience I had texting this girl. A couple things happened. One she gave me a shit test by calling me a hussey in response to me gaming her. The convo went down (ver batum, god I love iphones)

Me: Lol just wait when I see ya [fair warning you might get weak in the knees] Her: How many girls a day do you sugar talk?! Me: A gentleman never kisses tells :) her: Hussey. Me: Yeap I charge by the hour too didn't I tell you that :-)

Now my first instinct was to go on the defensive and validate myself with a simple "no no I'm not like that". But instead I took it to the extreme and avoided the question by flirting. If you take a challenge from a girl and take it to the extreme the convo goes from possibly negative to flirting. Another one included this (I'll admit I'd heard this neg before)

After trying to make plans but saying she's busy this week and proposed next week Me: Tsk tsk your losin cool points. Next week works but I only give girls 3 chances :-) How's Monday?

Her: Most def could work!

The 3 chances thing I literally stared at my phone for a couple of minutes before I sent the text. It just sounded like such a douchey arrogant thing to say. But then something happened. It friggin WORKED. In that moment I learned sometimes you just have to go for it. It's not arrogant to expect a girl to not take forever to meet up with you it's flirting. I like SO many other people on this thread had been teased as a kid. That hurt me at least because it was then that I only associated teasing as bad. Not that it is always good but later in life does anyone really get teased in a negative way? ** The best advice I can give is unlearn what you know about teasing. Teasing is flirting and flirting is going to show that girl the best side of you.** Idk food for thought...