So it was my last night before college (im 19), I go over to a persons get together with 2 other male friends. there are 5 girls there. Two are already getting with another one of my friends and i have been in contact with another one [HB7] on and off during the summer making me think that i am going to finish that night. During the party i accidentally tell one of HB7's friends that she is ugly, jokingly but i know it really doesnt matter. Basically, HB7's friend leaves in an angry drunken huff and shorty after that everyone else leaves. I am now in HB7's room (she was hosting the get together) laying on the bed. HB7 begins to clean the entire room while i mention a couple of times that she would have more fun if she were to lay down with me. after getting tired of her saying no (i asked 2-3 times) i grabbed her hand and tried to pull her down to the bed. this was the conversation:

her: "no we cant do this" me: "why not?" her: "for a reason that i cannot tell you" me: "so youre basically keeping secrets from me" her: "pretty much" me: "ok, have it your way"

she then kept cleaning the room while telling me how much she loved me but couldnt hook up with me because of said untold reason. did i do something wrong (i assume that i did)? if so, what? thanks in advance