So i'm going to skip over the initial attraction phase. I know some of us here still struggle with this, but that part is not as interesting as how the date went. Suffice it to say, I met her through an app and built trust and attraction with words. Shared interests, and just being myself. I use apps as a supplement to dating, and sometimes they pay off big time.

Part 1 of the date: Plans for the night were dinner and a bar with pool tables, darts, etc. My idea when planning this (i took full control of setting up the logistics, which I sensed she liked) was to have dinner and get over the awkward phase of meeting someone face to face for the first time, and then have the option for either of us to bail if this goes poorly. Luckily it did not. We had great conversation which was just me being 100% myself, with no filter. I reached to pay for the meal, but she offered to split, which I accepted. This is the first great sign for me!

The restaurant was within walking distance of the bar, which was on purpose. We decided to walk together (about 1 mile) which gave me the chance to see how she handles that sort of thing (is she a complainer, is she fit, etc). It also gave me an excuse to bump into her lightly, touch the small of her back, grab her arm when crossing the street, etc. Basically an easy road to physical escalation, but with very littler pressure on her yet. This all went perfect! She was opening up to me, since typically she is shy this was a big deal. The date had only been going on for an hour but it was already looking good.

Part 2 of the date: We arrive at the bar. It's still early in the night so the place is only like half full which is nice. We sit down and chat again while waiting for our first round. For the first time since meeting her, I complement something about her appearance (I was being totally genuine. She looked gorgeous). Being flirty, we tried each others drinks to see if we liked it. This also lead to increased physicality. I sort of brushed her arm a little longer than before. Enough that she looked at me in the eyes while doing it.

After drinking our drinks, we decided to get up and do some activities. We played pool for a bit, with constant Kino, just sharing personal details about ourselves with each other. By now we are between drinks 2 and 3, and both are pretty loose. The bar is starting to fill up, it's getting loud, and some music is playing. The date is going flawlessly. It is important to mention here, the old me could get dates to this point no problem. What I used to be bad at was turning this obvious chemistry into sex later in the night.

So with the atmosphere much more party-like, I decide to move us to a secluded corner of the bar where we can sit down next to each other, very close. At this point I steer the conversation to things like "what made you choose me on the app" and such. It is important to note that I was not coming off as insecure. This was much more toned to be flirty. She admits she thought I was really cute. With this I leaned over subconsciously almost like going for a kiss (really just taking a drink from my drink) and I notice out of the corner of my eye her leaning into it ever so slightly. Since I wasn't thinking of making a move at that time, I didn't make it awkward and go for it then, but within a minute later with the situation reset to normal, I did go for the kiss and of course she was excited to reciprocate!

Our quick first kiss turns into making out and leg rubbing, back rubbing, etc. This next part i'm quite proud of. After a few times of making out, playing pool, getting drinks, I take her back to the secluded spot and ask how she feels about everyone noticing us being so intimate. Her exact words then were "I wish there was a place not everybody could watch us". And just like that, we were on our way back to her place.

Part 3 of the date: So the rest of the night goes as you expect. Sex. Sleep over. Wake up and breakfast. I didn't leave her place til after noon. Then, she was back at my place that same night for more fun. I don't really focus on having sex with women and then dropping them. I'm in the game to find a long term relationship. I just realize the value in strength in numbers (more dates, more sex, more likely to find "the one"). The truth of the matter is me and her really connect, and me having good game made her realize that sooner than later.

I hope something in this wall of text is useful to you guys. I don't contribute much, but this sequence of events is pretty much my strategy in dating. I'm genuine and direct. If it makes you feel better, my looks are extremely average. I'd give myself a 5/10 or worse. This girl was easily a 9/10, and even mentioned she thought I was out of HER league. That is probably due to the confidence I carry when with her.

Let me know if you guys liked this. I can write more FR in the future from past dates that went similar to this. Although I hope to not write any more going forward, as I really like the girl that I describe here!