I just got back into a big city after awhile, so I'm hitting it pretty hard.

Lessons:

If you push for closes a little harder every night, you'll get further each night.

The first night I had a couple long interactions and two cute girls propositioned me without it registering until afterwards.

"It was really really nice to meet you!" stares at you with hope Translation: Please take my number and go out with me! I know this is dead obvious but if you aren't in the habit of getting numbers you will watch this happen and freeze up.

The second night I took a number from a beautiful girl and should have stayed with her till the end of the night but bounced to talk to other girls and I burnt out.

The third night I had fun bouncing around the bar, then pulled a really cute girl to my hotel and then things fizzled because I let the tension go.

The fourth night. The earlier part of the day I met this stunning girl and for some reason she was one of those girls who falls for you immediately. I got her number after a few minutes and she bounced away with her friends, super enthusiastic via text so that should be fun. I went through a roller coaster later, a couple guys got super aggressive when I was talking to their girls which shoved me into my head(I still have to make the habit to preempt this), I spent the rest of the night hitting hard, amusing myself with girls, and exhausting myself until closing time. Exhausted, I walked the street for a bit and really early into twilight hour I found a cute girl to hang out with and take home later. She and I messed around and had fun but no sex.

Stay with it through closing time, and reserve enough energy because that's the point where girls are ready to go home with you. A little after halfway through the night, if you're with a girl and her logistics are solid, stay in, try to pull, try to go home with them!

If you start having fun hanging out with her guy friend, the girl will chase hard for your attention.

Some of you will hate this: if you sneak a girl off from her friends, turn her phone off. If she can, tell her to let her friends know she'll see them later, if not they'll start blowing it up, when she likes you it's fine because she'll ignore them but if there's a short lull she'll blow.

Practice the little things on girls you aren't attracted to: commanding attention back, figuring out how to deal with her friends before they start working against you, grab her number, isolate. It loosens you up to escalate smoothly with other girls, and forces you to confront more of the little hiccups. Girls are really cute when they're starry eyed anyway.

When you're on it and plowing on a girl you like, burn it to the ground. Keep going until she tenses up or tells you to fuck off. I messed up once because I started cracking jokes and being really commanding and persistent with one girl. The girl cracks near the end but I barely see her face, so I move onto the next cute girl I see, and when I look back she's eye-ing me, durr. For the guys who think a girl who isn't immediately responsive is a bitch or not your type: sometimes girls are just guarded because they're being hit up by too many weirdos or scrubs, it's likely she doesn't even really know you're there, she's just on autopilot.

Cycle through different styles of communication. Some girls respond to banter, some to romanticism, some to commands, and some to being challenged. Find out what compels a girl and she'll have way more fun when you sprinkle that.

Also, write field reports of your most interesting 3 interactions each night, that's why I learned/reinforced all of this in four nights.

TLDR; look at the first sentence of each paragraph to see the bare-bones lesson.