Alrite, so this one is half field report, half asking for advice. About 3 - 4 weeks ago, I was waiting alone in line for one of the specials at the dining hall (pasta bar), and when a HB8 got into line behind me I struck up a conversation, commenting about how I hated this special because of the outrageously long line. We got to talking, and I received several IOI's, as she asked my name, and was asking me a lot of questions. We eventually got our food, and I said goodbye and walked away to sit with my friends(neglecting the number close because I was sure I would run into her again at the dining hall). I looked her up on facebook later, discovered she had a boyfriend, and completely forgot about her within a day or 2.

Now, fast forward to this past Saturday, where I am sober driving for a party for my fraternity. I am driving around, picking up people, and not paying a huge amount of attention, so don't realize that it is her and her friend who called me asking for a ride to the party. I didn't recognize her, but she thought I looked familiar, and brought up waiting in line for the pasta bar, after which I realized who it was. I talked with her and her friend for a while, while driving to pick up some other people, and eventually drop them off at the party. I run out of people to bring, so about 30 minutes later I go inside the party to hang out, and start up a conversation with her and her friend. Her friend (HB7, also had a boyfriend) was immediately putting her arm around me, and dancing with me, etc, scheduling a sober ride for her and the HB8 about an hour later and calling it a date / threesome jokingly. I talked to the HB7 and HB8 for a while, and they both got drunker as the night went on. One of the guys there was pretty into the HB8, and she was sitting on his lap, and dancing with him a little, but frequently wandered away from him. She was showing enough interest where it definitely looked like she was down to cheat on her BF though (pretty sure he was a HS boyfriend who went to a different school). I was legitimately busy doing things as a sober driver, so wasn't paying a huge amount of attention to her, though when I was talking I did manage to work in a little kino, and I referred to her as my pasta bar buddy when she brought it up around other people.

Anyways, I got a somewhat drunken invitation to get pasta bar again with her tomorrow, and also mentioned something about smoking me up on thursday (though this seemed pretty tentative). Her friend also promptly invited herself along. The HB7 friend was talking to me a lot and putting in a lot of kino, referring jokingly to me as her boyfriend, but was also doing much of the same thing to the guy that was interested in the HB8, so I think she is just naturally like that when she is drunk.

The HB8 is the real target, so I plan on texting her sometime tomorrow to confirm that we actually are getting pasta bar together that night. What I need is a witty way to do this, instead of just saying "Hey, are we still on for pasta bar tonight" . Whether the HB7 friend comes or not I should be pretty good to go over dinner, but I don't have much experience trying to get with a girl who has a boyfriend. If/when she brings up her bf i plan to use "I don't go for the whole leather jacket wearing bad girl types anyways" ,and otherwise run standard game, with DHV stories and some light negging, while giving more attention to the HB7 obstacle if she comes along.

Anyways, this post is a lot longer then I thought it would be so

TL;DR: Received some IOIs from a HB8 with a BF weeks ago. While sober driving, ran into her, she remembered me, and later was somewhat drunk and invited me to get pasta bar again (how we met) tomorrow night, possibly with her HB7 friend as well. I need ideas for a good text to send her tomorrow to confirm this (my main issues being she might now think i was just agreeing with her cuz she was drunk, or her not actually being interested in extending the invitation now that shes sober), and also tips on how to game girls with a (presumed) long distance BF in general.