Background Info So, I went out clubbing for the first time in the last couple of months a few days ago (been too busy to write this up until today) and decided it was time to try out some pick up things I've been reading about on here and other websites. Now before I get into this any further, I'm a pretty inexperienced guy when it comes to women due to being very insecure and never having a girlfriend throughout my whole life. I'd always get myself friendzoned, make girls get turned off me by my clingy behavior or just have no chance with whatever girl I'd be in "love" with at the time. Up until a few nights ago, I was the kind of guy that would always "come last". Even though I've always wanted to change and become alpha, I'd feel way too insecure to do so. What if people would make fun of me for wanting to be confident? What if no one would see my as anything but that awkward guy "nice guy"? Last week I got a text from a friend of mine asking me to come along to their favorite, new club so I decided this would be a great chance to try out the things I've read up about. I get ready, put on a nice shirt and prepare for the potentially successful night ahead.

My friends and I arrived at the club (one that I'm new to) and we enter and buy a few drinks. We're all talking and I decided to split for a few minutes to go "scope out" the club to see what I'm dealing with. Quite a few good looking girls, beta guys waiting for cute girls to approach them (I think we've all been there...), alpha guys and everything else you'd expect in a nightclub. A few months ago I would have spent my night sitting with my friends while they talk and pick up chicks. I could feel those insecure thoughts slowly creeping up on me but I thought "fuck it" and decided to spend the night with a positive mindset, talking myself up in my head as one of the most desirable guys in the club. I also payed extra attention to my body language and in a way mimicked the way most alpha men would carry their self.

So, I walk on over to the dancefloor and I my positive mindset/body language must have made a big difference. I walked past a group of girls and the hottest one there, a HB7.5 instantly makes eye contact with me, bats them and smiles at me. I decided to take control and approach her. We danced a bit and I talked to her for a while. She said she had a boyfriend but gave me a nice hug before I left, she told me she was glad to meet me.Half an hour later, another girl did the same thing and once again we danced. I notice a guy sitting on a part of the wall sticking out. He had the body language and charisma of a typical beta guy. Arms crossed, hunched over and her obviously didn't want to be there. He asked the girl to sit next to him and before I know it, I've been dancing with a girl who's in a relationship again! She told him no and that she wants to have fun. We dance for a little while longer and I leave out of respect to the guy.

The Most Progress I've Made So Far After going back to spend some time with my friends I headed back to the dancefloor and was approached by a random HB7 who I smiled at in the line. She asked me to dance with her, so I obliged and grabbed her hands and we danced for a song or two. Before I know it, we have our tongues down each other's throats and making out on the dancefloor. It starts to get pretty heated so we move on to a bathroom and hook up for a while. She leaves the club because she had work the next night so I go back to my friends with a new found confidence and understanding. Something must have changed in me on the outside or some people noticed why I was gone because a HB8.5 friend talked to me a lot more and applied a lot of Kino on me (whenever she'd say something/seem me she'd hold my hand and always acknowledge my presence with a smile.) In fact, more people seemed to give me automatic respect for once, something I had never experienced before.

TL;DR - I'm a a guy who was always a pussy growing up, never had a girlfriend and decided to grow the fuck up and take control for once in my life which resulted in talking up a few chicks, having girls approach me as well, unintentionally setting myself up as an alpha male over a beta for the first time in my life, hooking up with a HB7 and leaving the club with new found confidence.

So for a complete amateur who's never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl before, did I go well? What should I keep in mind for next time?