Well, I haven't been out in the field. I also haven't browsed this subbreddit everyday, so I didn't really learn much about day game. But today I covered a lot of ground and I have learned some things.
I'm on vacation with a couple of friends and today I went to the beach and we decided to look around for girls. While my friends were laying down a girl decides to set up next to us and starts reading. When my friends and I went to cool off she looked in my toward direction and decided while in the water with friends to talk to her, cause why not? After going into the water I tell them I need to check my phone, I go over somehow manage to say:
"hey I usually don't do this and sorry if I interrupted you, but I was curious what book you were reading"
and proceeded into conversation, with some girl that I just met from Ireland. The shocking thing about it was (not only the accent) that at the near end she liked how I approached and started talking to her because no did that She got to meet my friends and she tells us about where she works at some pub, got her snapchat and number, blah blah (work stuff, unrelated) wings and we went. I tried to set up something with her after her shift but she was busy working so I wasn't able to do anything.
After eating we decided to go to the boardwalk (Nj), to which my friends weren't really after girls since one was in a relationship and the other friend just seem too nervous and made excuses not to go for girls. Didn't meet any girls since I couldn't be without the only transportation and reason for the vacation to happen.
Self critique:
So from this whole day there is one thing that I really need to focus on is kino. I will admit, my kino at the beach was non existant. I just didn't know how to approach without negative repercussions in public.
I would say my conversation questions were a bit lack luster because although I did dive into passions such as music, travelling, and majors, the wording was rather dull and I could have made the phrasing more thought provoking.
I should have been more blunt and told her how she's looked cute, but I actually forgot to say that because I was enjoying the conversation and it just never crossed my mind. I think that if I did this kino would have worked.
I also notice I work well alone I got that #closed simply due to that I talked to mostly by myself. I just notice that I don't feel judged and no one is constraining me from achieving something great; the ability to socialize to complete strangers in complete confidence.
Oh and this is my first field report! I got a tinder date for friday so I'll see how that works (:
Feel free to comment or question!
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