Hi guys,

This is a my first FR so please bear with me if the quality is not up to standards :P I just wanted to share a funny FR of last night where I'm pretty sure where I went wrong but it's more of how I reflected on the set.

So I have recently rejoined the PUA scene after a year's relationship with some crazy ex bla bla... suffice to say I am a little rusty but not a complete begginer.

Anyway last night I went out with 3 friends, one of which was my main wing. The night started off slow as I initally always have a little AA in the early part of the night. In the end I just said "fuck it, what's the worst that could happen?"... well... you'll see. So me and my main wing scoped out 3 girls sitting in a booth and made the approach. I simply opened with a standard (I like to intially just use direct approaches) : Me: "Hey guys! How's it going?.... " Girls: blah blah (2 out of the 3 smile and are flattered by my approach) me: "hey you mind if we join you guys?" Girls: "yeh sure..." .... I continue with the convo, trying to build comfort but completely forgot about doing any Kino (which may explain a little of what happened later) but they were both smiling and laughing so I must have being doing something right. I love travelling and learning about different cultures and these girls had been to Australia and Hong Kong so we had that enough in common to keep a steady convo going. I guess it's important to say that I was having fun with the interaction and was generally just enjoying talking with pretty girls about things I wanted to talk about (thanks SP).

So after a little bit, I decide we should get back to our friends and move on to the next bar (as this was our first set). Me and my friend leave after getting each girl's number (we included the 3rd in our convo but she wasnt looking happy that we were mainly hitting her 2 friends but.... wasn't sure what to do as I cant take down all the girls numbers).

After this I was on a bit of a rush that it went so 'well' (ie. didnt going badly). We go to the next bar when I made what I deff think was a big mistake: I remembered that my girl had asked where we were heading next. I told her I didn't know but I'de text them or something mabe later on that evening. Now what I should of done (or at least my theory of what would have made things run better) was wait for enough time that evening and then text the girl (or perhaps my text was not flirty enough... I have no idea). But after having a drink or two and feeling slightly buletproof I texted her pretty much when we got to the other bar... I got a reply back asking "who's this".... Not...a....good...sign... But I plowed through and said who I was and ultimately got not reply back after that... Now most guys would leave it and continue sarging and forget her but after a few sets my wing got a text of her girl saying they were in the same bar as us... he texted her back asking where but no reply...again.... Then we spotted them sitting at the back.

Now at the time I was thinking that at least my wing has his girl interested so I should wing him to at least for his sake even though mine was not.... So we went over and once again.... I said something along the lines of "are you guys following us" and then gave a massive smirk. They looked like they were interested and allowed us to sit with them. Now at this point my 2 other friends come over which I think may have been the final nail in the cofin of this set.

Heres what happened next which may have been the biggest rejection I have ever gotten: ALL, thats all THREE girls, said they need to go to the toilet and would be right back. I jokily said ok dont keep us waiting too long or we may move on.... well you need super power to know what happened next... They never came back... I mean... nothing... AND then a little later I saw one of them getting chatted up by a guy literally 10 feet away from where they left us.... I was so shocked that I laughed for 5 minutes straight.

You may be thinking, why on earth were you laughing? That sounds pretty horrible! Well the thing is when you actually get rejected like that so harshly its no way near as bad as you think it is and even if it is, every other set you approach you can always think: "Well it wont be as bad as that last one" and even if it is, you kind of just become immune to it. I dont feel bad for the rejection, I like me and if they dont well its their loss quite frankly....

Me and my wing continued on after this and opened another set and got a number but didn't close. I'm still pretty crap and escalating kino and going for some kind of kiss close. But I'm sure in time and experience I'll get there. In conclusion just don't let rejection get to you and learn from it!!!

So TLTR:

1) Do more kino with girls or there will be no sexual attraction (and they wont even remember who u r).

2) After getting a number, keep sarging and do NOT concentrate on that one girl's number you got.

3) If a girl isnt interested, don't force it... move on and learn from it.

If any1 has anything they could give me pointers on or any comments then please DO IT. I'm trying to learn from my mistakes so I can actually become better at this.