Last night was bad and what I realized was that girls punish bad game.

Backstory So I have been texting this girl (let's call her J) I met at a house party on Sunday. She made out with some random dude but then I got her number, wasn't too keen on following up but whatever. She texts me the next day and we hang out in a library for two three hours with just fluff talk.

I like her energy and vibe and decide to catch up again. Plans are made but due to unforseen events I have to drop them. I text her the next day so she doesnt repsond and I let it be.

Last Night

So I text J last night and invite her to join me and my friends at a club that night. She responds in affirmative and it seems that the game is on. I see her with her friends at the club and I immediately feel everything is off. The handshake was awkward, there friends were standing around awkwardly. I tried joking around a bit and just chilling, but J gave no affirmation to my existence. So I start gaming the other girl in the group and start making her qualify (The old school are you adventurous and what not) , cocky funny , humor etc. While I am gaming , one of the short half-indian british guys from my social circle who I do not know that well slyly walks in and grabs a chair.

I see the girls gravitate to him immediately.

Him : Who is this lovely young lady (Poiniting to the chick I was gaming)

Me: Yeah she is my new girlfriend, her name is S.

Him: Nice to meet you

Her : Can he be my new boyfriend ! (Fuck)

Me: Sure you can, we are in a open relationship

Everything goes downhill from there, I become reaction seeking start getting into my head. I move around the venue and try to warmup with some different approaches but couldn't do any.

I come back and find that the group has already moved to a different club. I follow them like a puppy dog(pathetic I know). I meet them inside and I just start dancing and having fun. S starts grinding me and we have fun and what not. J still makes eye contact but doesnt say anything. I do the chodey thing of buying the girls shot, when I come back I see J (the girl I had been texting ) making out with the Brit guy.

Long story short, I try to pull them and stick around till the end but the girls are clearly showing no sign of interests. I finally eject and J my texting girl goes home with a brit guy.

Lessons:

  1. Don't put all your eggs in one basket

  2. Warmup sets are really important, open everyone

  3. Sometimes social proof and jealousy plot line doesnt work

  4. Do not buy girls drink ever !

TL;DR I act chodey, get outgamed by short skinny brit guy