First of all thanks Seddit for helping me. To preface, I'm extremely extroverted, lots of friends, easy to talk to people and make people laugh, but could never close due to Escalation Anxiety. Seddits helped me with establishing sexual frames, etc.

So there's this girl that I've been talking to for the past week, HB7.5, we've already grabbed coffee previously at Starbucks for about 3 hours, so this could be considered our second meetup. She's out of town for a volleyball tournament Friday & the majority of Saturday. Saturday night I text her and say "Hey let's hang out when you get back from your tournament tonight." She agrees and when she gets back we go and grab some frozen yogurt to figure things out from there. Kinoing a bit at this point and such, eye contact etc.

We're eating our frozen yogurt when she mentions that she'd love to learn to ballroom dance, luckily for me, i can ballroom dance. I tell her okay, i'm not telling you where we're going, but follow my car. We drive about 5 minutes to the top of this parking garage near the beach, those white christmas lights are up on the palm trees, you can see the high rise hotels and the whole skyline from the top of the parking garage, the beach, it's chilly out and the whole air is just glowing, and she's absolutely stunned.

I tell her okay, let's learn how to dance. Dancing is AMAZING for kino since my hand is on the small of her back the whole time, and if you mess up you can grab her by the waste or something. LOTS of opportunities for me to neg her as well, "you're so bad at this." , "not the best partner I've had" "you're such a dork" but with a cocky/ funny smile on my face. I turn on some classy music on the radio and we just dance on the top of the parking garage for about 2 hours, talking, kinoing, etc.

Anyway, we dance for about 1.5- 2hrs until she finally gets the hang of it, btw kino out the ass and her dad phones. At this point i realize, we've been out for a while and she'll probably have to go soon, so I have to act fast. In reality, i probably could have closed way sooner than this but was just nervous.

we're laying on top of her car just looking at the stars, and she can't find the Big Dipper, there's some idle chatter too.

Me: "you have to go soon?" her: "yeah, soon." Me: "Oh look, there it is." (I point somewhere to the sky off to my right.) Her: "Really where?" (She turns her head to look."

Intense eye contact.

Me: I dunno, I lied.

Boom, go in for the K-Close, make out for a few seconds (kinda sloppy but whatever) and i'm like, okay I have to go you probably do too. kiss her goodbye again and get in my car and leave, she texts me about an hour later "Hey, thanks for tonight. <3"

So thanks seddit for helping me overcome EA. Sorry for the messy FR, on my phone.