So tonight I decided to try something new...going out to a dance club solo. My previous girlfriend introduced me to dancing and I really enjoyed it (though we broke up last week). Anyhow, that's offtopic...

I started out early (like 10pm) and stayed at one of the biggest dance clubs in Indy. Got out on the dance floor relatively early and really got into it (without any alcohol either!). Almost instantly girls started approaching me asking if I'd dance with them! Overall, I had 5 different girls grinding on me tonight. The best part is that I didn't even go into expecting to engage with a single girl, I was just out for a good time. What's funny is that there was a mirror at the club and I happened to see myself dancing...it was kinda funny, as I'm not an amazing dancer but the fact is I was just having a great time and women saw that.

The lesson I experienced (though I've seen it posted here several times) is that it's not all about pickup lines and picking "prime targets" to approach. If you just go out and have a good time, women will come to you.

On another note, those of you who recognize me from askseddit know that I preach the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder like it's the holy grail of seduction. However, I need some advice on this. When a girl is grinding on you and there's obviously some attraction going on, where do you go from there in a club? It's too loud to talk and getting her to a quiet location is pretty much impossible. I don't know where "grinding" falls on the escalation ladder but I really floundered when it came to how to escalate (though I still consider this night to be a total success). Any advice there would be helpful and hope you enjoyed the FR!