Introduction stuffs: Hello seddit! This is my first FR so I hope it is not that badly written. For background info I am 26 year old male from Finland (northern Europe) and I have been lurking around seddit for about ~4 months.

I decided to do this FR just because I think this was my first time really using things that I have learned here and the luck in this case was just normal, not exceptionally lucky situations as my earlier hookups and such, which had been mostly afflicted by lucky situations and just basically, getting lucky. And yes, English is not my first language so sorry about that and you can correct my writing if you find typos etc. :)

WARNING, LONG POST

I live in a city where a river goes through the city and there are some restaurant/bar ships docked in the river. These are really popular hangouts for people in the summer.

On a boat ( time ~ 20:30/8:30pm ): I was invited to a one of these restaurant/bar ships to hang out and drink with my friend, his gf and her friend HB7. They had been there for an hour when I arrived, introduced myself to the HB7 ( she was REALLY tall, 184cm! I am 176cm! ) and started to normal bantering in the group. No kino happened during at the restaurant ship, but I told some crazy DHV stories, was joking and some really light flirting to the HB7. The light flirting was because my friend and his gf are bit "conservative" thinkers so I did not want to engage full on flirt mode.

The walk ( time ~ 23:45/11:45pm ): The couple were getting tired and started to plan on leaving, and I stated that I will be going to some club/pub after this. I did this because the HB7 did not state yet that is she going home or not, but she was thinking about leaving with the couple. ( Planting a seed of other options than leaving ? ).

We finished our drinks and started to head to the city center, and on the way I saw one k&#-close HB9 (which did not lead to anything after 1st date) and talked to her briefly ( Social proof/DHV ? ). After that we went on and I am not sure but I think I overheard that the friends gf was telling HB7 to hang out with me rest of the night.

When we got to an intersection where the couple was going other way to bus stop, and I was going other way to a club, I asked the HB7 "are you really going home? I could show you some clubs" as she had only lived in this city for one month. Then the friends gf winged me and said "go with him!" and she agreed to go with me. Then I started instant kino ( hand to her shoulder ) and yelled "woohoo!". And to the club we headed.

Club rooms ( time ~ 00:05/0:05am ): On the way I did some kino and some basic fluff talk about where did she live etc. started to build rapport bit by bit. When we got near the club entrance, I saw that there was no line for the club we were going ( nice! ), though the club right next to it had a small line ( they almost look like there is only one club/entrance ) and I just walked in with her besides the bouncer and the bouncer did not even bothered to ask for id. Then she asked "are you vip on this club?", I laughed and said that im not ( could have made a joke about it, situational fuck-up ).

We bought own drinks and went to sit to a quiet corner because I wanted to build more rapport and talk with her and of course, do more kino. First thing she commented on was the leopard-patterned couches, that this looks some porn-cave ( good! sex in thoughts! ). To that I said that "is that wrong?" and gave smirky smile. We started to talk about basic things, mainly work, because she is a bachelor of engineering as myself ( though different fields ) and continued to kino and started to flirt more.

We finished first drinks and then I wanted to do a small "venue change". So we bought new drinks and I wanted to take her to tje other room of the club ( this club has 3 different rooms ) and l lead her to the next room with hand on the lower back. From now on I started to kino her lower back and legs more. Nothing too interesting happened in this room, again I wanted to take her to the third room of the club and lead her there.

On the third room I started to ask her about her dreams and ambitions and started to keep my hand over her shoulder almost all the time. But she started to "distance" herself with body language crossed hands etc. Then I started to neg her about her body language how "insecure" and "uncomfortable" she seemed to be and began to fix her posture ( I sometimes do this without even me realizing that it might be offensive to some people ). Gladly, she said that I was bit weird ( oh no, weird usually means bad almost every time ? ) and I asked "Positively weird or negatively weird ?" and she said "Positively" with a smile ( wooosh! ).

Then I used the chance to my advantage and used the phrase "do you have a reason not to kiss me ?" ( I do not remember from whom I read about this line but thank you! ) and we start to make out. We make out quite often and I try to end it before she ends it.

After more making out, we went for a smoke ( she smoked, I use e-cig ). While we were at the smoking room some guy came over to buy two cigarettes, and she gave the guy the cigarettes ( she intended to give out for free, he was a ok guy ) but then the guy slams 10e to the table and asked "is that enough ?" she was like "of course". We left the smoking room and I said to the ok guy "have a nice evening" and fistbumbed.

We went back to the first room and she bought me a drink with her cigarette-selling money ( nice! ). More making out in the leopard sofas and then I realized that I need to escalate now or never and stated that "lets get out of here" ( did not specify where, but I wanted to get her moving before mentioning my place ).

Barrier ( time ~ 02:50/2:50am ): We came out from the club, and I said why won't you come to my place and I will teach you how to drink red wine ( she stated earlier that she only drinks white wine ). Now she started to raise up the ASD ( Anti-Slut Defense ) and said that she is not that kind of a girl. Then I replied that "I did not say anything about those things ? I am not presuming that we do anything more than drink" ( felt like I had to state that like that, she was ready physically for fucking after the first make out, seems her mind is just not yet ready ).

Then she kept going on "I think I should go home.. I think it is a bad idea". And then I acted, started to lead her to the taxi stop with my hand on her lower back and said "come on, you need to see the tequila bottle with the golden hat!" ( we talked about tequila before, and she usually likes to drink it when she wants to get totally wasted ). And magic worked ( or seddit stuff ), we walked to a taxi and went to my place. Barrier broken!

It is a good idea ( time ~ unknown ): I live on the bottom floor of the apartment building, which is on a hill so the building is "half underground", so you need to go stairs down to get in to the apartment. She commented that do I live in a freaking cellar or something, which formed in to a inside joke! We drank bit more, made out and she got up from the sofa many times and said "i am not like this.. this is a bad idea" and I just tapped the couch next to me and said "come here" and she came. This repeated three times if I remember correctly and usually when I started to touch tits/crotch. I always took few steps back from the groping and escalated it back.

Then she let me to touch her crotch with my knee ( lesser resistance to this than hand ). Things heated more and I started to lead her to bedroom and just when I was taking her top off, major LMR ( Last Minute Resistance ).

Basically the same as above again, and I talked about enjoying life and threw some "carpe diem" bs in between.

Then something.. weird happened. She went to the bathroom, and it was taking abnormally long ( no, she was not having a dump ) I thought if she passed out and thought about to go knock on the door. Then I heard sound of the water starting to come out of the faucet and was like "ok, she had not passed out" and waited for her few minutes. After a moment I went to the toilet and saw that my razor was placed differently that I had put it earlier that day ( yes I am quite observant ) and looked at the razor. Then I started to laugh silently, there was pubes in my razor! I did not find it disgusting or anything cause I noticed it, I just thought it was fucking hilarious!. From that point on I knew that she had taken down the LMR attitude. Then I just went back to couch and started making out fuckload more aggressively, took her to the bedroom and closed ( remember, ladies first! :) )

After closing, I went to toilet to get rid of condom and washed my junk. Got back to bedroom and she was fully clothed and I was like "what, why you are fully clothed?". She insisted to go home, so I called a taxi. Well, too bad, we exchanged numbers and I said that I am not looking for a relationship, but we could do this again. She replied with neutral "lets see about that". When taxi arrived we make out and I slap her ass and say "I hope you are bit more relaxed monday at work" with a smirk ( inside joke forming ).

Some points/thoughts: I needed to build comfort more when the ASD and LMRs came, mutual friends already provided comfort + I found out during the evening that I knew her big brother ( though knowing the big brother might have increased the ASD maybe ? ).

Few times I was thinking to myself about kinoing too much, but it seemed good amount after all. I am pretty sure mostly the ASD and LMR came from idea that she did not want to get the obvious slut or easy reputation ( from fucking a guy she met first time ever ).

If LMR comes, take few steps back and try again.

The genital hair might have made bit of that LMR as well, not sure :D

Comment on my writing please, if you like this I might write about my past failures/successes and future ones as well.