Hey all, I went to a concert the other night with two of my friends. One of my buddies saw 2 girls (Both HB 8) he knew and he started talking to them. Old me would have stayed off to the side and waited while they talked, but I said fuck it and butt in the conversation and introduced myself. They were both very outgoing and talkative, so I asked if they wanted to get some drinks at the bar. This is where the magic happened.

I stood beside the girl I WASN'T going for and whispered to her that I was going to attempt to pick up her friend, with a wink and a smile. I found that this is a great way to: 1. Find out if somebody is single and 2. See if they're interested in me already. Girls love to talk, especially about boys, so I was pretty confident her reaction would give me the green light or tell me to eject.

When I whispered that, she smiled and nodded approvingly. So far, so good for me I thought. And then shit fell apart for a while. Another dude came up and started chatting the one I was after up. So I said fuck it, and left for a while, only to see them outside the venue. I was pretty intoxicated at that point, so it is a bit hazy, but I somehow remembered their names from earlier and added them on facebook.

Fast forward to the next day, I send her a quick message: "Beers! tomorrow night"!

She responds with "I might be down! I have a friend that I might be meeting tomorrow for dinner"

Me: "alright, send me your number, I have a gig tomorrow night so I'll be downtown for a while"

She sends her number.

So I text her at around 9:30, saying we should meet at 11. And she flakes saying it would be a bad idea because she has to get up early for work.

At this point i'm a little bummed out and I was a little ticked off for whatever reason. So I text back "Rain check! let me know when you're free". She responds with "ya sounds good"

And this is currently how it is. She hasn't texted in 2 days, should I wait a couple more days, or just ask now if she'd like to go out on friday or something?