Hi all!

I did a FR about a second date K-close, make out but nothing too much more! I received a little criticism about getting LMR'd and not "powering" through it. I suppose as an update (because I know you guys are eagerly waiting) I'll say that I am still "with" this girl in her mind for the past couple of months. For whatever reason, I just can't get myself to actually like this girl. So I decided to go and look for something different...BUTTTT while keeping her in the bullpen until I can secure a new girl! Does this make me an asshole? Of course. Could you guys give me some advice on how to cut it off with 'Girl A'? I have no good reason to give to her since we haven't had any bumps in the road really...

On to the FR...

Online set us up...I honestly feel like this is kinda cheating in some sense. The approach is IMO the hardest part / my weakest game! Anyway, we meet up at a nice little bar. She arrives before I do and tells me that she is inside. I go straight to the bar when I arrive, look around and can't really see her. Give her a call asking where she is! I see her tucked away in a corner hah. I make eye contact while on the phone, give a big smile, signal her to come over to me, while saying something like "Oh hey there you are!!"

First observations of her: Super skinny girl, not like sickly or eating disorder, but like a very small girl...in a very good way. Really dig her style, she looks fantastic, dressed up but not over doing it...minimal make up. For anyone well versed in the online game, you may have experienced a girl/guy with deceiving pictures...this girl not the case. Honestly is better looking than she had appeared. In my book a solid 8.5-9/10.

Grab our drinks, sit down and get to talking. Good flowing conversation. We joke and both of us are laughing. Talk about careers, goals, family, and even more deep stuff. I tried to make her express "feelings" about things she said rather than just keeping a light conversation. We also had some joking talk about strip clubs, sexual things, and her rubbing sunscreen on herself naked...(you would have to be there I suppose)

At one point she does the casual touch my arm IOI. This is where I know I'll start to receive criticism on here. I suppose I should have tried to hold her hand at some point or go for a leg touch. We were sitting at a table, on the corner together if you know what I mean, so touch access is easy. She is getting a little closer to me as time progresses. Our arms are touching on the table and playful touching continues. Our legs are together too, not rubbing or anything, but touching.

The night starts to wrap up. I ask if she is ready to leave, place my hand on her back, and kind of guide her up out of her seat. FAIL pt.2: Walking her to her car, I should have taken her hand. Anyway get in with her and she takes me around the block to mine. FAIL pt. 3: Hug goodbye, but deep down I know she wanted a kiss. We give our parting statements and say how we need to do it again, she keeps saying something else instead of letting me go! I feel good about it.

OTW home she texts me saying how she had a lovely time and can't wait till next time...with a smiley face AKA secured haha. I tell her essentially the same. And that is that!

OK this is getting really long!! I know I probably had some mess ups here and there if we are going by the book! This is following the path to success that I took with girl A. I think I have planted the seed for a solid relationship with this girl. Criticisms are welcome! Also, what do you think is proper 'text game' for these following days? When should I ask her out again, bc clearly we both want to see each other again?