I'm going to keep it short because I've found that I do better the less time I spend here. I don't mean that as a slight--if you've read that you shouldn't be reading seddit but should be out and about they're spot on. Sometimes that requires unsubbing. Anyways I finally have shit to contribute so I'm back.

Back in the summer I #-closed my waitress after mutual kinoing had occurred all dinner long. For whatever reason we never wound up connecting. Then I discovered this and had to try it out and she was one of the girls it got tested on. The "you never write..." line worked like magic on quite a few girls with whom I hadn't talked in months. I'm not one for canned material--I have no problem with conversation--but my text game has been abysmal and that post was a godsend.

Anyways this girl both gets the roleplay better than any other and is the most excited to talk to me. She's out of town but is really into the idea of getting together--we make tentative plans that I don't keep since I wind up getting pretty damn sick. She adds me on facebook to show me pictures of what I missed and this girl, whom I and my friend who was eating dinner with me that night guessed was anywhere from 2-6 years our senior, winds up being somewhere around a decade and a half older than me. So it's game fucking on.

I keep in contact with some light teasing through fb and text and wind up calling her last night to arrange a get-together for coffee this afternoon. Got to the coffee shop a little bit before her (her dog was taking a bit to wake up and delayed her slightly) and see an old friend. Sit down and chat with him--fuck yeah random social proof. She comes in, we hug, I introduce my friend for no reason and we head to the counter to order. I'm kinoing when it feels natural which is pretty constantly at this point. One of the things I've ingrained in my interpersonal interactions over the last year or so is natural kino, so I'm pretty happy about that. She orders first and winds up picking up my shit too, and we split a cookie.

Drinks achieved we go for a bit of a walk with the dog. He's all over the place and kino feels contrived at this point so I ratchet it down a bit. At one point I do feed her a piece of cookie (her hands are full) which went over with some pretty strong eye contact. Overall I was focusing on the conversation, maintaining good eye-contact at times (can't exactly lock eyes while walking) all within a great self-assured frame.

End with a hug and me inviting her over for dinner/movie night a couple friends and I were planning at my place Wednesday, which she's very receptive to. So I end this FR with a question for you seddit: what is the best way to isolate when she comes over considering friends of mine will be in the picture? I tend to just let things flow but occasionally miss opportunities if I haven't at least brainstormed some scenarios beforehand. Right now about all I can think of is giving her the tour when she first gets here and just going in for the kiss right off the bat. Which I would have no problem doing and probably can't think of anything else since it just seems like the best approach already.

Love you seddit. Even though we don't see eye-to-eye on a lot of things there's a lot of valuable life lessons to be learned in PUA.

tl;dr Okay that wasn't short at all. Some text game rekindled some shit with a budding cougar. Enjoyed myself.